Need your advice once again

Hi, ladies,

Ok, I mulled this over alot last night and wanted to see what you thought. As you know my Dad passed away in April. What we were originally planning was for FH & his Mom to have their dance, then FH & I were going to dance to 'I Loved Her First' and then we were going to have a dance for everyone dedicated to our Dads.

After thinking long & hard about it, I think I may want to dance with my Mom. She's the absolute best and has always been there for me. So was thinking I'll dance with Mom, FH can dance with his Mom and then we'll have the dj invite everyone up to dance to 'Sweet Caroline' (first song I ever danced with my Dad to)& 'That's Amore' (FH's Dad's favorite song) in memory of our Dads.
Or do you think me & Mom should dance to 'Sweet Caroline'?

Then I thought I can always have the dj play 'I Loved Her First' some other time during the reception and FH & I can still dance to it but it won't be a solo dance, you know? But I can still hear the song which makes me feel like Dad is singing to us.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

do whatever your heart is telling you to do.. all your ideas are wonderful. just make it special!!! i like the idea of you dancing with your mom , i would pick a special song for the 2 of you!! then like you said , dance with everyone to sweet caroline dedicated to your father.

... my FH lost both his parents, and we are trying to come up with something also..

I think that dancing with your mom is a wonderful idea. Do what you think is best. Whatever your choice I am sure that it will be beautiful