Need your help! sorry so long
I have a friend who is having trouble deciding who her moh is going to be. her cousin is the choice that she wants to make, but only to make the cousin look good in front of the family. see here is the situation. the cousins brother got married last year and she made the wedding a living he!! for the bride (whom she made cry everytime she saw her) and her own brother. She was very jelous that her younger brother was getting married before her.
I am very concerned that she is going to do the same and even worse to my bf. to make matters worse the cousin went out with the best man and they had a terrible break up.
My bf is the nicest person in the world and i wouldnt want anything bad to happen. Her fiance is totally against having her be the moh and so is the cousins brother. She has already told my bf that if she is not the moh then she would rather not be in the bp at all.
What do i do or do i just but out.
and the weird thing is when my bf got engaged she told her other friend and i that we were both going to be moh.
so when she told me that she may pick her cousin to be her moh i was suprised nontheless. i told her i understood and that she has to do what feels right. I also said everything that i was going to do as moh i am still going to do. i just want the best for her
please give your opinions.
thanks in advance
