need your opinion
ok i talked to one of my oldest friends today about whether or not she is comming to the wedding mind you this is for 5 people ( her, her husband and the 3 kids) well she so very casually tells me well i have other addresses for you too - my boss wants to come and one of my coworkers so i will give you their addresses so you can send them invites.
i was blown away!
how the h*ll do you invite other people to someone else's wedding ????
she never even asked me if she could - she just presumed it was fine to add 6 more people on besides her family. i am like totally floored - i tell her i cant invite other people i dont even know !!!! i am thinking about cutting family to keep the costs down ( it seems alot more people will actually come than i thought - like my 12 cousins from california didnt even count them in my possibles till i got a call from them saying they saved the date and will be here !)
so i tell her how am i going to tell family that they cant come but i have space for 6 people i dont know? then i ask her if they planned on covering these folks plates at the wedding - she was like what does that mean ? ( you have to be kidding right who doesnt know what that means?) and i quite politely tell her that that means paying for what it would cost me to add these extra 6 people i dont know to the guest list - and she is like ohhh and how much would that be ??? like over $400.00
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and she is like - oh ... no.
i am totally wanting to strangle her what the hell ???? so she then tells me her new boss is also a wedding planner and she wants to come to like steal all my ideas![]()
you have got to be kidding me!!!!!!
i am trying to find a polite way to tell her not to invite people to MY wedding, but so far all i want to do is yell at her.
the top of the cake is she tells me to call her tonight ( she rushed off the phone after this bombshell cause she was at work ) so i figured we would talk about it tonight well when i cal she rushes off the phone to catch american idol tells me to call back at 9 and then doesnt answer the phone!!!!!!
what can someone be thinking to invite other people to someone else's wedding?
insite please gals i am about to loose my mind here.
HELP
i was blown away!
how the h*ll do you invite other people to someone else's wedding ????
she never even asked me if she could - she just presumed it was fine to add 6 more people on besides her family. i am like totally floored - i tell her i cant invite other people i dont even know !!!! i am thinking about cutting family to keep the costs down ( it seems alot more people will actually come than i thought - like my 12 cousins from california didnt even count them in my possibles till i got a call from them saying they saved the date and will be here !)
so i tell her how am i going to tell family that they cant come but i have space for 6 people i dont know? then i ask her if they planned on covering these folks plates at the wedding - she was like what does that mean ? ( you have to be kidding right who doesnt know what that means?) and i quite politely tell her that that means paying for what it would cost me to add these extra 6 people i dont know to the guest list - and she is like ohhh and how much would that be ??? like over $400.00
i am totally wanting to strangle her what the hell ???? so she then tells me her new boss is also a wedding planner and she wants to come to like steal all my ideas
i am trying to find a polite way to tell her not to invite people to MY wedding, but so far all i want to do is yell at her.
the top of the cake is she tells me to call her tonight ( she rushed off the phone after this bombshell cause she was at work ) so i figured we would talk about it tonight well when i cal she rushes off the phone to catch american idol tells me to call back at 9 and then doesnt answer the phone!!!!!!
what can someone be thinking to invite other people to someone else's wedding?
insite please gals i am about to loose my mind here.
HELP
