need your opion on bachelor party and bachelorate party

nessie0814 Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:19 PM

need your opion on bachelor party and bachelorate party

does anyone see anything wrong with doing a bachelor and bachelorate party together, or is it supposed to be separte, please give onest opion. thanks.

Madison-Todd2009 Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:23 PM

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no one can tell you it's wrong, it would just be not following the tradition of having 'one last night out' with just your friends.
If you think that the guys and girls would have a blast doing something together then go for it! or you can plan part of the evening seperate.. like dinner and then meet up later at a club or whatever.

Espo22 Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:24 PM

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its up to you and whatever you want to do. Dont worry if you do things differently not like someone is gonna stop it and say no you cant do that.

PERSONALLY, i didnt want it but that is just me. ANd no not for any bad or crazy reasons lol. I just felt with all the wedding stuff, i didnt have time just with the girls. Shower you have alot of ppl you have to talk to and spend time with, same with wedding day. I liked that i had this time to dedicate JUST to them and spent time with them only.

But like i said, that is just what i wanted. IF you and your FH want to do a joint bachelor/bachelorette party then go for it.

Deeglasser Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:30 PM

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nope! this is what we're doing... i want to get a place on fire island or out in montauk off season (late september)

dedecakes Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:31 PM

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ITA! I want a day without the guys! Me and my girls are going out to the Hamptons for the weekend. We are going to lay out on the beach/pool, go to the spas, do some shopping, and go out to dinner. Can't wait!!!!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Feb 19, 2009 06:41 PM

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no, i think its a great thing to do.... esp when the 2 of you have the same friends... i wanted to do one semi-together... like go away for a weekend and spend just 1 night out together...