Am I the only person freaking out?? I think about the wedding that's 46 days away and all of a sudden it gets hard to breath. Not because I have any doubt about him. I love my FH, we have been together for years. All I want is to marry him but the thought of a wedding makes me a mess. I'm soooo scared of how I'm going to be on that day.
Becca2010
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I'm so with you!!
And friends don't make it any easier! This week people have decided to keep saying, '2 months! 2 months! 2 months! 2 months! 2 months! 2 months! '
I want to strangle them!
On LIW, it's ok and I don't freak out, but when it's someone outside of LIW, I want to punch them!!
I also hate giving ppl outside of LIW status updates. Like what do you care of I finished everything? Do you want me not to and have a shittty day? Don't ask me stupid questions!!
dlj51206
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I think we have the same illness. They ask me questions and I'm thinking in my head 'as if you freaking care' LOL! So terrible. I feel like I have so many things to do, no idea where to begin, and no end in sight. Why didn't I elope???
Becca2010
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Definitely the same illness!!
Eloping in Mexico would have been so sweet. Just us, our family and closest friends. A girl can dream can't she?
Last night I was tossing and turning because I was having nightmares about the shower! When I woke up, I was thinking, 'Damn, I can't wait for the shower to be over (9/12),' but then I realized that after the shower, the wedding is right around the corner! I am flipping!!!
joctorre
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I have the same thing. Every time I'm doing something (and by 'something,' I mean 4 things at the same time), I am short of breath....
it sucks... and FBIL comes over the other night and is COUNTING the days... (not that I don't have a counter on almost everything!!!) and telling me 41 days, right???
UGH. I JUST unpacked everything from my shower. Give me a break.....
The only thing that is helping me get through the nerves is that someone reminded me that on the wedding day, you are NOT alone and the center of attention like at the shower, You share the spotlight with FH and that will definitely help!!!!
Breathe easy, ladies. Have that drink NOW (even though I do wish I could go on the honeymoon NOW!!!)
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I couldn't sleep last night. I woke up at 3am and never fell back to sleep. My mind just kept thinking about a million different things about the wedding (some really stupid)...and I dont even have anything left to do! It must just be nerves. If we're all feeling it I think it's safe to say it's pretty normal
dlj51206
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I told my FH the same thing this morning. I can't escape the wedding. I think about it all day and dream about it all night. I need a wedding break, just for a day. Don't worry though, the shower is the best part. It's all about you but without all the pressure. I had a blast at mine. I'm sure the shots of vodka helped too. My bachelorette party is the day before your shower. Fun weekend for us. YAY!
dlj51206
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More like a drink or FIVE !!!
FutureLW - OMG!!! Only a few more days!!! I can't even imagine how you feel right now! Like everyone said, just breath. It's your day so you should own it. If you aren't feeling the spotlight make you FH stand in it. If you love the limelight enjoy and bask in it.
I think after our day has come we are going to look back and laugh at what a breeze it was. I'de like to think so anyway. <>
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Posted by dlj51206
FutureLW - OMG!!! Only a few more days!!! I can't even imagine how you feel right now! Like everyone said, just breath. It's your day so you should own it. If you aren't feeling the spotlight make you FH stand in it. If you love the limelight enjoy and bask in it.
Thanks!!! Yes, SOOOO excited and can't stop thinking about every little detail!!!!!!!!!
Michy2009
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LOL....I have been having panic attacks for like the past month...I wake up feeling like I need to vomit every morning..its lovely...I go in the bathroom every morning when I first wake up and gag for like 15 mins.
