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kmiller Posted:

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So my e party is this Saturday. Its at my brothers house and I am nervous because I don't know if everyone is going to fit.

Plus FHs mom seemed kind of miffed that we weren't having it in a restaurant or something. But my brother really wanted to throw the party for us, so.....

I don't know I'm just nervous its not going to be up to FMILs expectations...

And if it rains- We're definitely screwed because we need the backyard space
GT143EA Posted:

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Don't be nervous! If FH's mom wanted it in a restaurant she should have thrown the party! Just relax and have a good time!

kmiller Posted:

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I know. I think she wanted to though and my brother offered first
GT143EA Posted:

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Posted by kmiller

I know. I think she wanted to though and my brother offered first



Oh well. Let her pay for something else
chicky724 Posted:

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I'm having the same problem! My mom really wanted to have the party at her house and I kept trying to tell her that I def didn't think everyone could fit if it rained she was like no no no, it'll be fine.

When we finally sat down and made the guest list and she realized it would be like 70 people THEN she finally listened to me.

So now instead we're just doing my and FH's immediate families, grandparents, the bridal party and a few close friends. It's 35 people though so we still have to hope for no rain!
kmiller Posted:

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I know. Ours is going to be like 50 people. If it rains- there will be standing room only
PROBM Posted:

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do not worry people always figure it out

MrsInglima Posted:

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Don't worry about your FMIL. You should have a good time and remember, it's your party and as long as you're happy who cares!!

We have something like 130 people on our guest list for the E party, and we're having it at my parents house. I don't think my mom knows just how big the guest list is.

They have a pool so I figured it would be good for built in entertainment and I'm starting to freak out about there being too many people. The thing is that these are all of our closest friends and family (minus the people who live far away), so if we cut anyone out people we see on a regular basis would be really offended.

We set up a rain date to be safe and we're going to set up lots of stations around the house and yard to try to help spread people out. Hopefully that will work.
amandamh23 Posted:

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i wouldnt worry about it everyone will have a good time

flairforfashion Posted:

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Don't worry- it will be fine!

kmiller Posted:

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thanks ladies
Fall BZ 2009 Posted:

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Don't be nervous...just ENJOY it! Everything will be alright

Mrs B to Be Posted:

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i heard its supposed to be beautiful this weekend!!!! and if FMIL is miffed thats her problem, this isnt her engagement so she can just keep her comments to herself

vicky1125 Posted:

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don't worry, everything will be fine. enjoy!

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