nervous about FIL'S
Whenever there is a post about FIL'S and how weird or annoying they are-I read it because I have in laws from hell, but this is a little different. I'll try to keep it to the point.
My FH father past away 21 years ago and my FMIL married a man when my FH was 16 or so. His 'step-dad' is very strange and he has been making me nervous lately and I dont know how to approach it. the 'step-dad' is against us getting married because after we get married my FH will not be living there anymore~ the step-dad will not have him there to help him do things around the house and hang out with him at night when his Full children go to bed(FH mom and her husband have 2 children together) now, when I go over there(which isnt often bc of all the turmoil that the FIL'S have caused me) he stares at me with the nastiest looks, follows me and FH around, makes jokes about me being over-weight and just plain-old nasty stuff. I'm starting to be a little scared of this man. He is very unstable. I tell FH about it and he tells me that he talks to the step-dad about it and the step dad says that I'm over reacting, but the very next time I'm around him he is doing it again! I just dont know what to do?! I'm at the point where I don't want to go over to the house at all, and risk me not seeing my FH as much as I would like to bc of it...and we dont see each other as much as I would like to now(work schedule conflict)!
thanks for listening~~hope it wasn't to long of a vent! but this is something that has been on my mind for awhile now.
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thx
Jessica
My FH father past away 21 years ago and my FMIL married a man when my FH was 16 or so. His 'step-dad' is very strange and he has been making me nervous lately and I dont know how to approach it. the 'step-dad' is against us getting married because after we get married my FH will not be living there anymore~ the step-dad will not have him there to help him do things around the house and hang out with him at night when his Full children go to bed(FH mom and her husband have 2 children together) now, when I go over there(which isnt often bc of all the turmoil that the FIL'S have caused me) he stares at me with the nastiest looks, follows me and FH around, makes jokes about me being over-weight and just plain-old nasty stuff. I'm starting to be a little scared of this man. He is very unstable. I tell FH about it and he tells me that he talks to the step-dad about it and the step dad says that I'm over reacting, but the very next time I'm around him he is doing it again! I just dont know what to do?! I'm at the point where I don't want to go over to the house at all, and risk me not seeing my FH as much as I would like to bc of it...and we dont see each other as much as I would like to now(work schedule conflict)!
thanks for listening~~hope it wasn't to long of a vent! but this is something that has been on my mind for awhile now.
Feel free to FM if you don't want to post it on the boards.
thx
Jessica
