nervous for.........

what is the thing you are most nervous about?

i'm nervous that there will be so many things going on leading up to the wedding with favors, place cards, etc. that i will loose sight of the fact that i am getting married!! anyone else feel like that????

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Posted by pandafish519

what is the thing you are most nervous about?

i'm nervous that there will be so many things going on leading up to the wedding with favors, place cards, etc. that i will loose sight of the fact that i am getting married!! anyone else feel like that????

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it gets like that sometimes...but FH has a knack of keeping me grounded...he reminds me often but it is mainly b/c he could care less about place cards and programs...

he would do everything on looseleaf if he could ..lol

That makes sense - sometimes with wedding planning it's easy to get lost in the planning itself and forget that there's a marriage at the end of the wedding planning road! And it's so easy to get stressed about all the details and remember what all these details are really about and what they're leading up to - marrying the man of your dreams!

I'm most nervous that half my guest list won't show up. We have sooo many out of towners and even the people who don't live in a different state are far away from the RH. We had to guarantee 100 people and my biggest fear is 30 of them will show up

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Posted by aimerlena01

I know what you mean!! I feel like there's so much going on I don't always get to enjoy the fact that we're engaged right now!

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that's exactly what FH said.. he wants it to 'enjoy being engaged and about us'. because my sister is getting married in a month i dont want to take anything away from her so i am doing a lot of planning quietly and just getting things done. and because i am helping her so much, FH and i rarely get to spend time together. but we are probably going to have an engagement dinner the end of november just for our immediate families.... so i am excited to have some engagement time for us...

Ive decided awhile back that whatever will be will be & that i will not allow anything to upset me or make me totally nervous. So i have that mindest. But the only thing that did worry me was the weather i just dont want a Nor'Easter ! ugh. BUT WHATEVER WILL BE WILL BE

i completely understand. i am someone who doesn't get worked up and the main reason we are trying to do everything now is so we can sit back and enjoy the few months leading up to it... i hope that works!!!!