Nervousness Is Setting In

jw11897 Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:06 PM

Nervousness Is Setting In

Me and FH sat down tonight and wrote down everything that we paid for and everything that we still have to pay for.

Basically we have to save $25,000 in the next 10 months guess there will be a little belt tightening going on .

HearzBellz Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:08 PM

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Welcome to the club.

It seems overwhelming, but somehow it all works out!

JimmysBride Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:08 PM

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Don't worry -- we are ALL going through this I think!!! I made our budget and savings plan a long time ago. I try really hard not to look at it too often because I know I'll start to freak a bit!!!

aliciahelene Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:16 PM

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It is all very normal to stress, its a very stressful time..I always thought it wsa supposed to be such a happy time, and it is, but its also more stress than usual...dont let it get the best of you, I did, and I almost lost my fh, take it easy on yourselves and enjoy being together..it will all work out, we scraped and saved and put VERY little on credit card, it was worth it, nowthe only debt we will have is my damn student loans!!

jennbaby Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:17 PM

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I remember those days! All while living together, on our own, rent & all, paid all cash too, no cc! It sucked but you will do it!

chris605 Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:18 PM

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I can definetly relate to that..BUT dont worry - I am sure it will all work out...

WithThisRing Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:18 PM

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welcome to the club

dont worry, it all works out

franksbride Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:19 PM

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Posted by jennbaby

I remember those days! All while living together, on our own, rent & all, paid all cash too, no cc! It sucked but you will do it!

Same with us...it somehow all worked out though!

jw11897 Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:21 PM

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Thanks guys for all your supportive words.

I know it will work out it has to we have no choice.

We are paying everything in cash we do not want to have to pay anything off after the wedding.

jennbaby Posted: Dec 29, 2003 11:22 PM

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Posted by jw11897

Thanks guys for all your supportive words.

I know it will work out it has to we have no choice.

We are paying everything in cash we do not want to have to pay anything off after the wedding.

smart

Just save & cut out uneccesary shopping, dinners out etc.