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Never going to find 'the one'

emilyandlouie Posted:

Never going to find 'the one'

I am feeling so discouraged!! I have tried on at least 50 plus dresses and have gone to about 10 different Salons (I am now visiting salons for a 2nd time to make sure I have tried on everything!)There are so many dresses that I love but I seem to find something I don't like about all of them.

I want to put a dress on and me wowed by how I feel and look in it and I am just not getting that feeling. I have been open to every style, fabric, cut and designer within my budget and I am starting to feel like I will never find my 'ONE'

Is anyone else going through this???
scottsbride Posted:

Never going to find

Did you try Bridal Suite of Bayshore? They have beautiful stuff. I also had the same problem because I had what I thought I wanted in my head but when I would try on that style it would look nice but I wouldn't get the wow feeling. The lady helping me brought in a dress and I told her I didnt like and didnt want to try it on and she said just try it on for me whats another try one....well as soon as I put it on I felt dumb. I LOVED it!!! I didnt want to take it off and I knew that was it. It took me trying on something that I would never try on to find the one. Maybe try on stuff that you wouldnt try on. Never judge a dress by its hangar lol

angelicd77 Posted:

Never going to find

I went through the same thing. I dont even want to think about how many dresses I tried on... Just keep plugging away.. Youll find it. And the designers are always coming out with new stuff so mabye your dress is in a new collection or something like that! Dont get discouraged. Enjoy trying on dresses and have fun with it!

emilyandlouie Posted:

Re: Never going to find 'the one'

Thank you all so much for the encouragement. I mean, I know it has to be out there somewhere! I did threaten to walk down the aisle naked and my Grandma didn't like that idea, lol, so I guess I have no choice but to keep looking.

I went to the BS of Bayshore once quickly on my lunch break and really liked the consultant I worked with. I definitely wasn't there for a long time so maybe Ill go back and really take my time trying on their dresses. And, maybe I'll try on something that is totally not what I am envisioning :).

I feel like this is supposed to be fun and I think I am feeling down about the experience so far and not having fun with it. I walk out of appts so mad at myself, and maybe thats the problem. I should just relax and enjoy it.
KristyANDMatt224 Posted:

Re: Never going to find 'the one'


Posted by vppjzv


Posted by emilyandlouie
I should just relax and enjoy it.



You said it perfectly. It's your wedding! Don't think about dress hunting as a problem, think of it as a positive and maybe the perfect one will appear!



Agree!
bellasmommy1029 Posted:

Re: Never going to find 'the one'


Posted by angelicd77

I went through the same thing. I dont even want to think about how many dresses I tried on... Just keep plugging away.. Youll find it. And the designers are always coming out with new stuff so mabye your dress is in a new collection or something like that! Dont get discouraged. Enjoy trying on dresses and have fun with it!



This
scottsbride Posted:

Re: Never going to find 'the one'


Posted by KristyANDMatt224


Posted by vppjzv


Posted by emilyandlouie
I should just relax and enjoy it.



You said it perfectly. It's your wedding! Don't think about dress hunting as a problem, think of it as a positive and maybe the perfect one will appear!



Agree!

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