Never had such a bad day like today..........

Kuklitsa143 Posted: Feb 04, 2011 12:32 PM

Never had such a bad day like today..........

Today has to be the worst day of my life :(
FH and my brother don't get along for the most part. I mean they are civil but they both have issues with each other. Brother issues wil FH is that he doesn't have the best job and Fh issue with my brother is that he an a-hole.

So, I am in the middle of this and it so hurt because I am very close to my brother eventhough he an a-hole to me at times. So, I emailed him knowing his temper asking him to apologize to Fh for something that has happen and FH is hurt because of it and he went nuts on me. Left FH a nasty vm, told me to f*** off and etc.

I am sitting here at my desk crying uncontrolable.

I guess my effortsto make my life less stressed totally didnt play out the way I wanted it to.......

philsdeezy Posted: Feb 04, 2011 12:57 PM

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I would have done the same thing. Sometimes you just have to just leave things as they are and let them work it out when they are ready. He sounds like as *** anyway I would never be hurtful to my sister in law because I am mad at my brother.

KristynLeigh Posted: Feb 04, 2011 01:47 PM

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I'm so sorry! I hope everything works itself out. Maybe you just have to be Switzerland. Love your FH love your brother and try to keep them away from each other as much as possible.

S00n2beWifey Posted: Feb 04, 2011 01:49 PM

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Awww im so sorry you are going through this...sometimes people will just be the way they are no matter what happens. Maybe its best if you just stay out of it and just let them resolve things themselves. Your brother might just stop being mad after a while once he realizes your FH will always be around. Im so sorry again!! If you need to vetn anymore we are here for you!!

fdnybride163 Posted: Feb 04, 2011 02:21 PM

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im so sorry you are going through this!

best is to let the boys handle it themselves, and stay as far away the stress as you can.. its not worth it

Kuklitsa143 Posted: Feb 04, 2011 02:39 PM

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Posted by fdnybride163

im so sorry you are going through this!

best is to let the boys handle it themselves, and stay as far away the stress as you can.. its not worth it

They arent going to handle it themselves. My brother cursed out my FH in a VM and told me to F** Off

:(

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Feb 04, 2011 02:43 PM

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I'm so sorry! I hope it all works out!

mara1017 Posted: Feb 04, 2011 02:43 PM

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I am sooo sorry that you have to deal with this.

It sounds like you may just have to stay out of it in the future. I know that is hard but they are both big boys and they can talk to each other if they have an issue with each other.

klosack Posted: Feb 04, 2011 02:49 PM

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I'm so sorry! That is such an awful situation to be in.

I feel terrible for you.. hopefully eventually they will see that they need to get along b.c they love you too much to hurt you like this.

JRT5412 Posted: Feb 04, 2011 04:07 PM

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That's horrible. i'm sorry your going thru this. But I agree with the other girls, it's best you just stay away and let them solve their problems. on their own. Boys will be boys.