never knew people can be soo difficult

Hey everyone....aint been on in a while cause I was taking a break......and im coming back with a vent....I am sooo freakin sick of my MOH and my BMs. They always have something to say and im sick of it.....its getting to the point where my hair is totally falling out and I been in tears!



The girls ordered their dresses back in July and the bridal shop told us that they would be back in 5-6 months which is like Dec or Jan but they came back yesterday. I emailed my BMs and told them that the dresses are here and they gor pissed off at me cause they came back early......

So i took my 15 yr old cousin to get hers becaue she already had her money and she walked out the bridal store because she thought the dress was ugly and wasnt going to pay for it . She complaining talking about the color, dress, she is not happy with and the top part is too big . I told her that we need to do alterations and its not complete. SHe ended up getting it though


so my dress came in too and i tried it on and she kept talking about how fat I was and my dress was ugly too


then my MOH called mad and said she wasnt paying her hers until she try it on...she wont be back until november for the bridal party meeting


the dresses need to be paid and picked up by Sept 30



I really wished I would have went to the courthouse


then they told me that the bride is supposed to pay for the nails and pedicures...i dont have money like that! (am i really supposed to)

so then i found a woman that will do all the bridesmaids hair for a good deal and nails and feet..my MOH said she is going to let her friend do her hair

i am tired of it all and i have 7 months remaining to deal with this ****!

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

aww im sorry to hear that! why do the dresses have to be picked up early? Usually they have to be picked up byt he date of the wedding that is on your contract. It is not your problem that the dresses came in. Check with the salon, something sounds funny to me!

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They dont have to be picked up....they just have to be paid in full by the 30 of sept...they can keep the dresses there until the time of the wedding if people want their dresses kept there

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Posted by missjones2007

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

aww im sorry to hear that! why do the dresses have to be picked up early? Usually they have to be picked up byt he date of the wedding that is on your contract. It is not your problem that the dresses came in. Check with the salon, something sounds funny to me!

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They dont have to be picked up....they just have to be paid in full by the 30 of sept...they can keep the dresses there until the time of the wedding if people want their dresses kept there

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hmmm still doesnt sound good to me...did they have alterations? most places that i know of dont make you pay in full until your alterations are finished and the dress is in your hands to go home.

Yes usually all salons dontnot to be paid in full until after alterations. Im sos orry you havetogo through this & I can not believ a Bm actually called you fat. thats ridiculous! You are beautiful& youwillbe a beautiful bride. Forget the haters! Im so upset someone would do that to you on this, the very best time in your life! I guess i can only say that if they dont pay for the dress then they cant be in your wedding!

Good luck & dont give up its your day!

Oh ps. you never pay for mani's/pedi's are they nuts!????

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by missjones2007

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

aww im sorry to hear that! why do the dresses have to be picked up early? Usually they have to be picked up byt he date of the wedding that is on your contract. It is not your problem that the dresses came in. Check with the salon, something sounds funny to me!

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They dont have to be picked up....they just have to be paid in full by the 30 of sept...they can keep the dresses there until the time of the wedding if people want their dresses kept there

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hmmm still doesnt sound good to me...did they have alterations? most places that i know of dont make you pay in full until your alterations are finished and the dress is in your hands to go home.

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we decided to get our alterations done somewehere else because they are too expensive there

I am so sorry you are going through this!!!
Try to stay strong and don't let anyone get you down! You're beatiful and this is your special day!

I have never heard of the bride paying for the BM's nails.

Don't let haters take away your joy.

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Posted by missjones2007

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by missjones2007

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

aww im sorry to hear that! why do the dresses have to be picked up early? Usually they have to be picked up byt he date of the wedding that is on your contract. It is not your problem that the dresses came in. Check with the salon, something sounds funny to me!

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They dont have to be picked up....they just have to be paid in full by the 30 of sept...they can keep the dresses there until the time of the wedding if people want their dresses kept there

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hmmm still doesnt sound good to me...did they have alterations? most places that i know of dont make you pay in full until your alterations are finished and the dress is in your hands to go home.

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we decided to get our alterations done somewehere else because they are too expensive there

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got ya..i still dont see why you have to pay in full though...i would argue that with them to give you some more time!

I am so sorry that your BMs are being so difficult! They will come around in the end, and no you dont have to do the mani-pedis for them. Tell them how upset they are making you and if you they still have negative stuff to say, forget them, you dont need to have BMs, especially if they are causing you stress!

Sending a hug your way!!!