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never thought i'd see the day!

atitus724 Posted:

never thought i'd see the day!

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Single again...
But having such a terrible night.

My mother and sisters are changing everything I do for the wedding. I wanted pew bows, my mom won't have it. They even changed the baskets for the bathroom. I feel like it's everyone elses wedding, not ours. I just want to cry
mtk1605 Posted:

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why are they changing it????

dunnkat Posted:

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Don't let them bring you down! Its your wedding you do what you want, tell them you don't need them changing things and stressing you out!

DreamyD Posted:

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have the florist or decorator put the bows up at the last second with out you knowing.

Pick your battles- baskets are something really small-

let them have the basket change.
It's in the restroom!!!

lol

Congrats on being single for the very last time!!!!
ImgonnabeMrsC Posted:

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Don't let the little things bring you down! People won't be paying any attention to it Nyway. They will be focused o. How beautiful you are and how happy u n ur hubby will be!

MNM0805 Posted:

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Posted by ImgonnabeMrsC

Don't let the little things bring you down! People won't be paying any attention to it Nyway. They will be focused o. How beautiful you are and how happy u n ur hubby will be!



Exactly this! They aren't going to notice there aren't any baskets in the bathroom. As for the bows at church, have your florist put them on if you really want them.

Its your day not your mothers. Try not to please everyone else over yourself and your soon to be husband!
atitus724 Posted:

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It started with the menus..then place cards. All the 'small' details were changed. I dont know why it bothers me so much but I just feel like its her dream, not mine. At least I got James, thank goodness. I don't know why I'm being q bridezilla now. Ugh!

dunnkat Posted:

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Your not being a bridezilla , your just stressed out ! Take a breath and focus on the good.
Jmrosa1 Posted:

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Your not being a bridezilla!!!! It's your wedding and you want the little details to be what you like and want, and not what everyone else likes and wants

leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by DreamyD

have the florist or decorator put the bows up at the last second with out you knowing.

Pick your battles- baskets are something really small-

let them have the basket change.
It's in the restroom!!!

lol

Congrats on being single for the very last time!!!!



ITA with this

if you want the bows, you should get the bows

as far as the basket goes, let them have it
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