nevermind

Greek2be Posted: Apr 01, 2006 12:14 AM

nevermind

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Apr 01, 2006 12:31 AM

Re: MOH .. IS A JEALOUS ENGAGED SISTER ...

Do tou have other people in your bridal party? why don't you ask them to help with the bach. party?

Greek2be Posted: Apr 01, 2006 12:54 AM

nevermind ...

sarahradio5 Posted: Apr 01, 2006 08:08 AM

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you can ask them BOTH to be your MOH so you don't start any arguments, and maybe privately speak to the sister you know you can count on to tell her how you feel about everything. There's no rule that you only can have one MOH.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Apr 01, 2006 08:21 AM

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Thats what I did - I asked my future stepdaughter and my stepsister (who was expecting to be MOH) even though I didn't want to just to keep the peace...

VogueBride Posted: Apr 01, 2006 09:07 AM

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i would ask the sister you are closer with and seems like she wants to be more involved. i have a friend that has 2 sisters. and they sat down when the first was getting marrie dand decided...ok sister A will be MOH for B, and Bwill be MOH for C and C will be MOH for A....mayeb that would work for you girls???? then no one feels bad

DandS Posted: Apr 01, 2006 09:09 AM

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I would say to do whatever you think it better. You want your wedding to be an amazing experience, and not filled with drama and jealousy!!! If you are closer to you other sister, and you want to ask her, I do not see a problem with that. Being a MOH is a HUGE honor, and it sounds to me like your other sister will definitely look at it like that and not try to compete with you or fill your wedding up with drama!!!!!!

Or you can ask both of them, so you don't hear any fights. But it sounds to me like you really want the other sister as you MOH, so if you have to have the jealous one, then I would ask both of them.

Good Luck!

spooks Posted: Apr 01, 2006 09:26 AM

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I have two sister also, both older - they are co MOHs. As it turns out neither is doing much but one definitely does do more than the other - and the same happened when the other got married- we were coMOHs - but I did most of the work.

Good luck!

babybug631 Posted: Apr 01, 2006 11:03 AM

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Maybe talk to your mom, she can get the ball rolling.

MJDoc12 Posted: Apr 01, 2006 11:14 AM

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umm--i don't see the big thing--just ask the sister who you are closer to, to be your MOH if you don't want the other sister to cause drama. you can have your other sis be a BM instead.

i think you may be stressing yourself out over nothing--when it comes to weddings we become hyper-sensitive and just ASSUME all kinds of drama is gonna ensue. there are no 'rules' that you have to ask your older sis to be your MOH. ask who YOU want.