Well i dont knw if i spelled that right.. but anyway, i researched and spoke to family members that it was ok to throw our registry listing in with the invitation.... other people disagree. I need opinions b/c it was already done and my fiancee is flipping out b/c he is being told differently. Any advice?
coldasice217
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I think generally the registry info is put in the shower invites, and NOT in the main invites.
gina409
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are u having a shower?cause imo it should be in the shower invitation not the wedding one...maybe its me but i would not put a registry in a wedding invitation...jmo
9509Bride
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all the wedding etiquette sites say this is a wedding No-No
I believe the reason is because it is seen as being presumptuous (as if the invite is contingent on a gift) the reason it is seen as ok to include with a shower invite, is because the purpose of a bridal shower is to essentially 'shower' the bride to be with well wishes and gifts to prepare her for married life.
I digress, if you have already included them then it is too late and there is no need to worry about something you cant change. Many people are CLUELESS about wedding etiquette so you prob really shouldn't even worry. Even if they DO care ....they can go kick rocks.
Dont fret my pet
allegracristina
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Registry info is not to be included in the wedding invitation if proper etiquette is being followed. It is meant to be included in the shower invite. Good luck!
krislee316
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registry is NOT to be included in the invitation only the shower invitation. Also be prepared that now you will probably get gifts from your registry instead of cash.
FutureMrsG
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Registry info should not be put in with the invite BUT some stores like Macy's will send announcements to your guests you have to send them the guest list.
