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New Bride Charged In Spouse's Stabbing


By Andrew Smith
STAFF WRITER

February 11, 2004


Deanna Anile had a good reason for sticking a knife deep in her husband's chest and slicing off part of his pinky last month, her lawyer said in court yesterday.

Anile was acting in self-defense because her husband, Timothy Tully, 39, of Lake Ronkonkoma, was trying to kill her, said her attorney, Michael Brown of Central Islip.

'This is a classic case of my client being abused, time and time again,' Brown said at Anile's arraignment in Riverhead on charges of attempted murder and assault. 'She was fighting for her life.'

Police and prosecutors dispute that. Suffolk Assistant District Attorney Rafael Pearl said he would not concede that Anile, 25, was justified in stabbing her husband of six months. 'She might have severed an artery,' Pearl said, noting the blade came close to Tully's heart.

Suffolk County Court Judge Gary Weber set bail at $10,000 cash or $20,000 bond. Brown said he expects Anile or her family to post the bail. Tully, who owned a chimney sweeping company with his wife, could not be reached for comment yesterday. He spent a week in Brookhaven Memorial Hospital and has been released.

Brown said the couple married in August, after knowing each other for less than six months. Problems surfaced quickly, he said. 'On the honeymoon, he was abusive,' Brown said.

In the course of the brief marriage, Tully was arrested twice, Brown said. One was for harassment, after a physical altercation between him and Anile. She had an order of protection from that incident, which was supposed to have prevented Tully from attacking her, Brown said. 'She's the punching bag in the relationship,' he said.

The other arrest was for criminal possession of a firearm. Tully pleaded guilty to that charge days before the Jan. 31 stabbing, and is to be sentenced to 90 days in jail, according to court records.

After a night of drinking and partying at their home, Tully began hitting Anile in the face and trying to strangle her, Brown said. He showed photos of her with bruises on her face and neck that he said were from the fight. In the course of the struggle, Brown said, she reached for a knife to defend herself.

At yesterday's arraignment, Weber signed a new order of protection ordering Anile to stay away from Tully. 'I can see where it would be wise to separate them,' he said. 'One's got guns, the other's got knives.'
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Posted by jennbaby


At yesterday's arraignment, Weber signed a new order of protection ordering Anile to stay away from Tully. 'I can see where it would be wise to separate them,' he said. 'One's got guns, the other's got knives.'




What a way to start a marriage
cooky11111 Posted:

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WOW
Xelindrya Posted:

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Posted by jennbaby

New Bride Charged In Spouse's Stabbing

Suffolk Assistant District Attorney Rafael Pearl said he would not concede that Anile, 25, was justified in stabbing her husband of six months. 'She might have severed an artery,' Pearl said, noting the blade came close to Tully's heart.



Shame she missed.

This is why I give so much attention to battered women shelters and their children. We all go into marriage hoping for the best.


Moehick Posted:

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God...thats why you need to know your spouse more then a few months! They don't look too happy on their wedding day!

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NYCMeghan Posted:

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yikes!!

guess pre cana wasn't too useful here?!?!!
nrvbrd Posted:

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I hate hearing stories like this.
shamma Posted:

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I am sorry that this has happened, but if someone is a batterer, he did not become one overnight, anything that pushed her this far to do this was there before the 6 mos in which they got married. People do not change, it is who they are and unless they feel changing is going to benefit them in some great way, they are going to stay exactly how they are.

You go in to marriage knowing he is a slob, thinking he will change after the fact, you will be waiting for a lifetime. When are we as humans, especially women going to wake up and stop going in to relationships and marriages thinking he/she will change. It never does. Sometimes they do but only for the worse. I guess that is why we have vows.
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I totally agree Shamma.

They only knew each other for six months? Some people think it is such a fairy tale to meet and get married within six months. I think you are heading for disaster. You cannot fully know that person truly in that short amount of time. This is JMO.
HearzBellz Posted:

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OMG I think I know that guy
LizD Posted:

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That's scary

june262004 Posted:

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BTW Jenn I love the new pic in your Avator.
Xelindrya Posted:

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Posted by shamma

I am sorry that this has happened, but if someone is a batterer, he did not become one overnight, anything that pushed her this far to do this was there before the 6 mos in which they got married. People do not change, it is who they are and unless they feel changing is going to benefit them in some great way, they are going to stay exactly how they are.

You go in to marriage knowing he is a slob, thinking he will change after the fact, you will be waiting for a lifetime. When are we as humans, especially women going to wake up and stop going in to relationships and marriages thinking he/she will change. It never does. Sometimes they do but only for the worse. I guess that is why we have vows.




Although I would normally agree with this, I must admit that's not always true.

I was engaged before. I knew him for a year and we got engaged. Things went well for the first 6months but yes, there was stress. I thought it was the wedding.

Then the screaming came. The insults and belittling of me. He had me wake him up when I left for work and call when I arrived (i worked less than two blocks away) I had to call when I got home as well and while I had dinner because he thought I was really off F-ing an ex bf of mine. I was told to disconnect my phone and change my cell number. I did it all, idiot me.

I tried to stand up for myself and he made me feel childish and stupid. Then he started to toss things AT me but say he was purposly missing. He was downright frightening to be around. I did EVERYTHING I could to avoid him being unhappy. Afterall we were going to get married.

Then he said he would not allow me to continue to work once we got married. He fully expected me pregnant within 6 months and to stay at home. Now, if he was rich I wouldnt have minded I was at crossroads in my life. But he was unemployed (lost his job because he blew up at work) and I was the breadwinner. When I said so, he freaked and yelled at me for 'rude' to him.

I finally dumped him after he screamed at me on speaker phone while I was at a BM's house. Said I was probably bend over being screwed by my ex bf. It took the shame and humiliation to get my butt in gear. When I got home (we lived together) and gave back the ring and told him to leave, I got back in my car (didnt feel safe staying) and he ran out after my car banging on the hood and threatening me.

SO.. the point?
You never really know.
Yeah, it can happen overnight.

He never hit me. But in less than 7 months he became a monster.


I wonder.. if he had held off until after the wedding.. how far would I have let it go before I divorced him?

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