New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

marymoon Posted: Apr 28, 2008 02:56 PM

New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

If you've been around awhile, you know me, if not. HI!

I got engaged in 2004 and set a date in 2006. Due to a number of issues (family complications, FH lost job, etc etc the list goes on) I cancelled my wedding.

When we got engaged we immediately asked a few people to be in the BP. As time went on I asked 2 more girls (friends from HS) who I spoke with frequently at that time. I didn't ask them really formally (it was actually over IM since they were international at the time) though I planned to have a BP GTG and give out 'will you be..' cards.

I don't really talk to these girls anymore. I mean we're still friends and we're still in touch, but we've drifted more and more. There are other people I'd rather have in my BP.

How should I handle this?

futuremrsfab Posted: Apr 28, 2008 03:00 PM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth

marymoon Posted: Apr 28, 2008 03:01 PM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

Posted by futuremrsfab

With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth

I was thinking this. a LONG time has passed. But I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings

'So when are we going for dresses?'

'umm...you're not!'

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted: Apr 28, 2008 03:27 PM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

If I was you, I wouldn't ask anyone anytime soon, considering you have another 4 years and 8 months to get married. You should wait until the year before.

marymoon Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:51 PM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

LOL!

It's a fake wedding date. Not my real one. I just put in the latest date it would let me once I'd cancelled my wedding. I have some ideas about a new date, but I'm not there yet.

I just wanted some advice on the BM situation.

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted: Apr 29, 2008 10:29 AM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

Posted by marymoon

LOL!

It's a fake wedding date. Not my real one. I just put in the latest date it would let me once I'd cancelled my wedding. I have some ideas about a new date, but I'm not there yet.

I just wanted some advice on the BM situation.

Ohhh.......

Lily092207 Posted: Apr 29, 2008 02:15 PM

Re: New wedding date (postponed) and BP changes. Advice please?

Posted by futuremrsfab

With the amount of time since you asked them, its almost like a different event, so I dont think I would mention it at all- and if they ask just say we decided to keep the wedding party small or just to family and leave it at that hth

I agree with her. It's been awhile now and alot has changed.