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Scoop Posted: Sep 21, 2004 06:20 PM

Re: What is the biggest lie an ex Signif Oth has ever told you??

He was moving to california......meanwhile my friends would always see him around when he was supposed to be in LA. What a loser!

Jenn524 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 06:35 PM

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When I was in high school one of my exes told me that he was a virgin. I later found out that not only was he not a virgin he had unprotected sex when he was in a mental institution. Now I knew he was in the institution and I knew he had a girlfriend when he was there but I didn't know they had unprotected sex. I felt as if my life was in danger when I heard this. I never had sex with him but we almost did and I did plenty of other things with him.

I broke up with him immediately. TO make matters worse a couple of months after the break up he had his ex call me and tell me that she was just diagnosed with HIV and she felt I should know. Totally made the whole thing up to make a joke out of the situation.

Xelindrya Posted: Sep 21, 2004 06:49 PM

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God too many lies!!!
SOOO many!

Couple of favorites:
- When I called him once and he answered his cellphone with two chics giggling in the back ground about how he needs to lick the chocolate off their nipples before it gets sticky.. ONLY to say “Uhm.. I’m just checking out some porn on the internet” which would make sense until one chic picked up the phone and said “Veronica if you believe that you are as stupid as you look and boy don’t you look stupid!” (they proceeded to torment me with calls for a week or so, sometimes just the girls sometimes with him and once while they were at it and left that on my answering machine)

- “You know that girl I said I met last week and I remember when I said that we went to High School together?” Uhmm crap! “yeah well we did go to high school together and I didn’t just meet her last week, we’ve been together for a few weeks now and she’s moving in on Friday, can you move to the spare bedroom by then?” We were living together for nearly a year.

- “I only broke up with you because I couldn’t figure out what to buy you for Christmas” His best friend happened to be standing behind him when he said this, the face said it all.

- Same as above for Valentines and THANKSGIVING! What do you get a girl for thanksgiving??

Odd thing is.. people wonder why I say I know this guy and I would NEVER work out no matter how much he’s changed. Can we say ever so slightly bitter?

jenny2penny Posted: Sep 21, 2004 07:35 PM

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Xelindrya Posted: Sep 21, 2004 08:11 PM

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Is it considered a lie if a guy says to you he has two kids, which you meet and his previous ex and he dont talk.

Then you find out he's been visiting her (he used my carry on bag and left the ticket stub - wasn't Chicago like he SAID he was going to)

Then is it a lie if you find out after he admits he's been seeing her it's only because she's 8 months pregnant with his son? Which he seems to NOT have told you about?

So lets see three kids three mothers.. Oh and broke up with me when the child was born (this is the idiot I moved to NY for)

I couldn't even be mad at him breaking up with me cause I mean it's his son, what can I say??

But not saying he had a pregnant woman ticked me off.

Just like finding out the lady who came over everynow and then and looked me strange was because she had a....errr.. sympathy lay with my guy the day before I moved in. Like I should feel honored my BF was a such a great lay he improved the self-esteem of women!!!!!!?

HearzBellz Posted: Sep 21, 2004 08:17 PM

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My ex told me he was straight....that was a lie

Another one told me he was not seeing a particular girl that I knew & used to call the 'walking CDC'...that was a lie

And yet another stole over $35,000 from me....not really a lie, but close enough

maybride2004 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 10:35 PM

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Hmmmm....let's see
Well I dated this *SS Hole for a couple of (SAY) weeks, he told me he couldn't get together cause he had a friend, that was killed in a car accident!! I believed him and felt sorry 4 him.

What an *ss for doing something like that!!

IrishTracy Posted: Sep 21, 2004 11:33 PM

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That he wouldn't cheat on me. But, sure enough not w/ just one but 2 of my 'friends'.

allure Posted: Sep 21, 2004 11:38 PM

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That he was a man

Jax430 Posted: Sep 21, 2004 11:41 PM

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Wow...lots of lies from lots of A**holes!

Honestly, the worst lie that I'm aware of was when a HS bf broke with me out of the blue. Once we reestablished a friendship, he told me he cheated on me a day or two before we broke up.

Wintersbride Posted: Sep 22, 2004 12:52 AM

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oh, lets see...
that he was single, that his actual 'other girlfriend' was a psycho ex who would not leave him alone, that he never cheated on me, that he was a human being...the list goes on and on.

On to better (MUCH BETTER) pastures though...I think he did me a favor.

eogara Posted: Sep 22, 2004 04:22 AM

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that he graduated high school

princess99 Posted: Sep 22, 2004 07:03 AM

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My Ex FIANCEE lied all the time... one was that he was not cheating on me- when I was there girls were leaving messages on his machine and he said they were freinds- yeah right... that he gave me earrings with real diamonds in them, it was so obvious they were CZ's, the list goes on and on that is why he is my EX!!!!!! The songs - 'it wasn't me ', and 'mambo #5' it reminds me of him.

anjerandunder Posted: Sep 22, 2004 08:37 AM

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that he stopped doing cocaine and that it was just a few times he had done it and then i found him on our porch doing it with a friend at 4am...or how about the time he said he wasn't calling the porn numbers that he had racked up thousands of dollars on a credit card for before he met me only to find out that he started to do it on line a few years later or how about the time that his best friend's sister was always over and i questioned it a few times to hear 'she's just a friend' only to find her in bed with him when i came home early one morning after house sitting...oh boy what a loser i am for staying with him as long as i did..he joined the circus after we broke up and actually told me when he was leaving town that he would return in 5 years to 'be the man i've always wanted him to be.' YEAH RIGHT!!! I ALWAYS WANTED A CIRCUS CLOWN ITS BEEN MY DREAM!!!!

marymoon Posted: Sep 22, 2004 09:42 AM

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PIMP. Mabe circus clowns aren't so bad. Just not THAT circus clown.

Wow. I thought mine would take the cake. you're making my ex look like an angel.

goingtobemrs Posted: Sep 22, 2004 09:43 AM

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Posted by allure

That he was a man

WHAT????? Details on that one please...!!!

Donna Posted: Sep 22, 2004 09:50 AM

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From 18-22 I dated someone on and off (he joined the Navy during this time because of me) well I found out that while stationed in California he got married.!!
I only know because I got a call from her!
We actually got along well and discussed what an a** he is - he'll still call me every once in a while and it's been so many years...

tracyg Posted: Sep 22, 2004 10:42 AM

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that he was single. (they had girlfriends)
2 guys did this to me (one gf was long distance, the other was local). And one of them had hung out with me with a turtleneck covering a hicky and said he got hit in the neck with a football. No I did not believe him and we stopped seeing each other.