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That is definetly a tough one. You may want to let her know that the comment that she made was hurtful to you and you didn't appreciate it. Good Luck!
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I would just let it go. Sometimes things in print come out wrong. Where as if it was said in person it may have not been so hurtful. To avoid a confrontation, I would let it go this time. But if it happens again, I would bring this up.
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Posted by PattyK
That is definetly a tough one. You may want to let her know that the comment that she made was hurtful to you and you didn't appreciate it. Good Luck!
I agree. I would tell her it was hurtful. It may have been taken out of context--it's easy to do online, but if you know her well, then you probably know what she meant.
Just a question, will she be able to figure out you're talking about her from your post? I would try to speak to her asap. We've all seen how it plays out when someone takes something to the boards before confronting a friend.
Good luck and sorry you're hurt!
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Posted by twinkle164
I would just let it go. Sometimes things in print come out wrong. Where as if it was said in person it may have not been so hurtful. To avoid a confrontation, I would let it go this time. But if it happens again, I would bring this up.
ditto. it might be just one of those things where the poster didn't realize how it came out in print. but if its REALLY hurting you--u can just say that you didn't like the comment. BUT if you go into the whole 'your FH is worse and i don't know why you are marrying him' --- well that might cross the line and be a bit much considering the other person wasn't TRYING to hurt you---but if you say this to them then you will be saying it to be hurtful
