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TraceySLP1 Posted:

no surprise for me

soooo, my mom planned and booked my shower i guess a while ago....when i mentioned that i hope it was a sunday because i WORK SATURDAYS she got this look on her face....

guess what? SHE BOOKED A SATURDAY AND CAN'T CHANGE IT!

so now i know my shower is June 5th. at least i can make sure i take the day off and look nice.

anyone else having a NON-surprise shower? do you care?
Diana508 Posted:

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I do! I wanted it this way, actually. I knew I'd figure it out somehow, especially when a family member or friend invites me for 'brunch' or for a 'birthday'. I felt silly dressing up for it and then making pretend to be surprised.

I'm getting my makeup done! It'll still be great, don't worry!!!
Clover23 Posted:

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my shower is on saturday. i've known about it the whole time lol and i don't care. i prefer it - don't like surprises!

MR1223 Posted:

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my shower is this Saturday. i've known about it and basically planned it with my mom. did not want to be surprised lol.

RaeloveMeg Posted:

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Yeah ive known about mine also- just makes it easier for my mom/ bridal party I think. Plus i want to look good that day lol going to get my makeup done...and thinking about my hair- but something casual!

Lsorrent Posted:

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My shower is supposed to be a surprise, but my mom keeps accidentally giving up info, lol. But I have a feeling I know when it is. Mine has to be a Sunday because I also work on Saturdays.

ETA: But YAY! Your shower is on my wedding day!
saralee1978 Posted:

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Mine is not a surprise, I went with my mom to book the place. Mom doesn't drive, and she said she didn't want to bring my dad with her.

I have way too much family from out of state on both sides, I would not have been a surprise for long. And I'm kinda shy, so I really didn't want all the attention of walking into the room.
flibbertigibbet Posted:

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mine isn't planned yet but wont be a suprise because i have fly to michigan for it. can't really swing a suprise when a 700 mile trip is involved, you know?

SuzanneK Posted:

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I am having a non surprise shower and my shower is also June 5th. I know the date and time thats it. I now can do my hair nad makeup and look nice. I wanted to know because since I finished chemo and this new curly hair is growing in its ooc.

JBC12510 Posted:

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Mine won't be a surprise either- I wanted it that way.

halfbaked Posted:

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It's still a surprise! All you know is the date! I know my shower is March 20th, but that's all I know about it.

joctorre Posted:

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my sister (MOH) keeps talking to me about it, but I kind of want it to be a surprise. She thinks it doesn't have to be. She didn't want a surprise, so she's getting back at me I guess... I just don't want to deal with planning one more thing... My parents are givingme enough trouble as it is............. we'll see what happens

mariedsgn Posted:

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GR2010 Posted:

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Mine isn't a surprise. I actually don't like surprises all that much and would have badgered them until the told me anyway. I'm not involved in any of the planning, I don't care about that part of it so much but I wanted to know when so I could at least make sure I look nice. I know a lot of girls are giving their mom's their dresses to change into but on a normal weekend I'm a no makeup/hair not done kinda gal so even if she had the dress, there is a very good chance that I would still look like a hot mess in a cute dress... and lord knows my legs probably wouldn'y be shaved so I wouldn't be able to put the dress on anyway LOL!!!

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