I want to be able to plan my wedding and have fun with this.
but i feel like work is making me crazy. I dont even have time to call and speak with my vendors until i go on my lunch break. I feel like I am slacking and have yet so much to do
its just so frustrating...Can anyone give some advice on how to handle work stress???
ido07
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Set small goals for the week..or even each day. Even if it is a few things per week that you want to get done.
Staying organized helps too...Do you have a wedding binder? Keep all info, receipts, phone numbers, magazine pages, etc.. in one place. It makes a jhuge difference! HTH!!!
Summer07Bride
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I feel the same way, but even during my lunch break I have no time. I am usually calling parents for students who are failing my classes.
I need more hours in the day.
ef922
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I can't recommend anything chica because I feel the same way. The DJ keeps calling me and I don't have a minute to call back...he finally called again tonight and was like...I was worried that you had found someone else! Wouldn't it be nice if we just had a little more time
camerakrazie
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yea wish i had more time
army wife to be
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your vendors will work with you.. so if you tell them you can't talk until a later hour.. they'll either make appointments late for you or prob give you their cell numbers. that way you can get things done after work. just ask them.
Ida881
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I started going in earlier around 7:45-8:00am getting a lot of work done in the morning. Then have the rest of the afternoon for wedding stuff. I leave at 4pm and get home by 5pm..with a little more time for wedding stuff. Can u do that?
BlushingBride714
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Oh man, I definitely hear ya! If you find a solution, please pass it along because I am going crazy myself. Don't our bosses know that we have a wedding to plan and should be excused from all work until after our nuptials?!?!
trish71407
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I hear ya! I am so tired of everything! Work, school, closing on our house, the wedding- I just cant do it all! Unfortunatly I am not super woman! I just keep telling myself that somehow everything is going to just work out!
drpepper318
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I feel the same exact way. I keep telling myself I need to make the wedding planning the biggest priority but it's so hard with a million other responsibilities. I don't sleep anymore!
tomsgirl07
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I feel your pain- I feel exactly the same way. I keep playing phone tag with my vendors and never get a free moment at work where I can actually talk to them and finalize things. It's so frustrating!! Sorry I don't have any advice for you, but I can totally empathize.
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I felt the same way, I would jot down things to do/people to call on post it notes and TRY to get to at least 1 a day if it was possible.Those were my famous last words for awhile at the end....I wishI had more time! But in the end it was all done and the day was perfect, so yours will be too.
Strings22
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First take a DEEP BREATH!!!!! and SLOWLY breath out. Okay now what you do is make a list how who you have to call. Then make one or two phone calls and cross them off the list. I did this because there was so much at work to do that i was going to lose it. But making the list helped. I also did this for the things I had to get still. It will be okay everything will come together.
AtlantisWedding
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Planning a wedding is like having a second job. I know exactly how you feel!