No, your children are not invited

CantWait2Wed Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:34 PM

No, your children are not invited

I really, truly can't believe how many people actually ask if they can bring their kids. Don't they realize that they are putting the bride and groom in an uncomfortable position by even asking? I feel terrible that we have to tell people no but COME ON!

IrishAli Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:36 PM

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Yikes...I just got asked by one of my gays if he could bring his new boy from NYC to my Shower since he is going to be in town.

Uh, no?

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:37 PM

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Ugh so annoying! I wanted an adult only reception but there are so many kids in my family & FH's family, we just couldnt do that.
Hopefully people will start realizing and stop asking you!!!

luvstruck Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:41 PM

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That is annoying....

Kiki22 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:42 PM

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that is so annoying

CantWait2Wed Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:56 PM

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Posted by IrishAli

Yikes...I just got asked by one of my gays if he could bring his new boy from NYC to my Shower since he is going to be in town.

Uh, no?

LOL, bringing a date to a shower is a new one!

CantWait2Wed Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:57 PM

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I can understand close family members asking but not friends

rosatemp Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:58 PM

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Posted by luvstruck

That is annoying....

ITA!

kshea23 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:58 PM

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Posted by IrishAli

Yikes...I just got asked by one of my gays if he could bring his new boy from NYC to my Shower since he is going to be in town.

Uh, no?

ironically, I got asked the same question by my gay bestie! I'm like first off your going to be the only guy there, and secondly you don't bring dates to a shower!!

spdy540 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:58 PM

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Definitely annoying so not looking forward to this

bartgirl12 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 01:59 PM

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I agree with no kids at wedding....if I wanted kids there I would have invited them on the envelope! so annoying

IrishAli Posted: Feb 06, 2011 02:05 PM

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Posted by kshea23

Posted by IrishAli

Yikes...I just got asked by one of my gays if he could bring his new boy from NYC to my Shower since he is going to be in town.

Uh, no?

ironically, I got asked the same question by my gay bestie! I'm like first off your going to be the only guy there, and secondly you don't bring dates to a shower!!

hahah I told him that if I don't know him, then no. I do have a gay couple coming, but I've known them both for years!

mrsq2be Posted: Feb 06, 2011 02:08 PM

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Posted by bartgirl12

I agree with no kids at wedding....if I wanted kids there I would have invited them on the envelope! so annoying

this.. if you are having kids...you would have put them on the envelope! can't people figure that out?!

miselacanto Posted: Feb 06, 2011 05:52 PM

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OMG. I'm going throw the same situation. I do not have a problem telling people that there are no children invited. I already told my cousin that if they want to come to my wedding they need to get a babysitter because the location does not accept kids. I'm so bad but I do not care. They need to understand that is a wedding not a birthday party..

rendel Posted: Feb 06, 2011 05:55 PM

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People have no clue!!!!!!!

TapTapGal Posted: Feb 06, 2011 05:56 PM

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That is annoying! I hope people don't start asking me that - but I know they will. I have my 'No' on automatic already.

ajudgeinthecourt Posted: Feb 06, 2011 06:01 PM

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that is anooying! I am so worried about this and people just asking to bring guests.

at our engagement party i had a couple of people who asked if they could bring some people

this is not highschool keg party

.........

GL

Soon2bMrsB91511 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 06:04 PM

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That is SO obnoxious. I don't care if you're relative or a friend, I would have no problem telling them NO!

FSIL is pregnant and supposed to give birth in March, and I made it clear to FIL that i don't want to see/hear this baby at the wedding. It's a WEDDING. Not a gymboree.

If you have kids, its your responsibility to figure out what to do with them.

cait214 Posted: Feb 06, 2011 06:17 PM

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I don't understand this? I have a 4 year old son and there is NO way I would bring him to a wedding/adult event. Parties like this are FH and I's ADULT time. We take full advantage and make sure we find a sitter MONTHS in advance!!! If we couldn't find a sitter, only one of us would go.