not a wedding issue but a marriage issue

My finace & I have been living together for over two years. What we found is the best for us is to keep a joint account for all "apartment" expenses. That includes rent, utilities and monthly expenses like food and going out, and we also add extra for savings.

We each keep our own spendings seperate. I pay my own bills from my own account and he pays his. This solves the problem. We have our private finances and our joint finances.