NOT BEEN HERE FOR A WHILE (kinda long)

so as most of you nkow FH and i moved away from eachother

ive been in florida since June 1st and he stayed back in kansas to wait for our lease to up

well its going to be up on the 23rd of october and he was then going to move down here and we were going to buy a house and all that and stay in florida

well 2 weeks ago his grandfather got sick and he actually passed away last night and now FH does not think he should come here and that he needs to be with his family (which i agree) but he wants to stay there for good now and i dont now what to do

he says that he can not leave his grandmother all alone and he wouldnt be able to live with himself if he moved away

now i transfered with my company..and have started a whole life for us here and im here with my family that i have lived away from for 3 years and he thinks that florida is not a good idea anymore

so we are going to be apart from june 1 2007 until 1 week before the wedding ( 2-23-08) and then who knows whats going to happen

this just *****

wow i am so sorry to hear that! i hope it all works out.....give him some time maybe he will come around

i'm sorry, i hope things get better soon

i'm so sad to hear about that dominique!! i'm sure everything will work out. i don't mean to sound cheesy but the longer you wait the more exciting it will be when you are finally together, and you'll never take being together for granted.

hope it works out soon!!

does he have ANY other family in Kansas?

Can he move his grandma to Florida?

You 2 are going to be married and as much as it sounds mean i think he needs to start putting you first. You have alaready started beuiolding a life in Fl, thinking he was coming there, now you are going to pick up and move your life again? I wouol dhave a good converstaion about this and list all your options.

GL

I wish you all the best!