Not Excited for BShower? Update: More No!

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

what's the matter V? what's the BS you're dealing with

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There is a # in the invitation to call and Rsvp rit?
Ppl have called me to say 'I dont wanna call the # but I am not coming'...

.... and Guess who called me to say that?
U will not beleive it!

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are you serious?? why are they calling YOU?! isn't it a surprise???

is it FMIL?

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Not a surprise anymore...
I had to check the date myself the date before EVERYONE else spoils it...
So now I know the BShower Date...

but Yes, FMIL called to let me know she will go away and will not come....

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Are you kidding? That should be good news instead. OMG V....do not get upset about that.

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Posted by Richiesgirl

awww Veronica I am soo sorry you feel that way. Please try and stay positive and be excited for it. Do you know when it is?

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Yes, I had to see my own invitation. i was going to wait til like the 2week sof July but since i had ppl asking me things and I was trying to AVOID every call i decided to FIND out BY myself instead of finding out by someone else...
July 24th

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Posted by Cataverri

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

what's the matter V? what's the BS you're dealing with

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There is a # in the invitation to call and Rsvp rit?
Ppl have called me to say 'I dont wanna call the # but I am not coming'...

.... and Guess who called me to say that?
U will not beleive it!

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are you serious?? why are they calling YOU?! isn't it a surprise???

is it FMIL?

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Not a surprise anymore...
I had to check the date myself the date before EVERYONE else spoils it...
So now I know the BShower Date...

but Yes, FMIL called to let me know she will go away and will not come....

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Are you kidding? That should be good news instead. OMG V....do not get upset about that.

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... Yeah i am happy she is not coming but hurt u know I;ve try to get along and just doesnt work...

I wish she would be helpin us n being a great FMIL but its the opposite....

Not to get into details but I had 0 help and support from DH's fam. That was fine by me. I personally think that if it grows from your heart to help and assist then that's great but if it dosent then thats great too. Having my family helping me that was more than enough.

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Posted by Cataverri

Not to get into details but I had 0 help and support from DH's fam. That was fine by me. I personally think that if it grows from your heart to help and assist then that's great but if it dosent then thats great too. Having my family helping me that was more than enough.

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I know... i got u chica...

Asi estoy yo, ZEROOOOOOOO! NADAAAAAAAA

but i guess im just being 'wishful' n 'hoping' things were different but its ok...

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by Cataverri

Not to get into details but I had 0 help and support from DH's fam. That was fine by me. I personally think that if it grows from your heart to help and assist then that's great but if it dosent then thats great too. Having my family helping me that was more than enough.

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I know... i got u chica...

Asi estoy yo, ZEROOOOOOOO! NADAAAAAAAA

but i guess im just being 'wishful' n 'hoping' things were different but its ok...

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Nunca esperas nada de nadie...para que asi no te desiluciones!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Cataverri

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by Cataverri

Not to get into details but I had 0 help and support from DH's fam. That was fine by me. I personally think that if it grows from your heart to help and assist then that's great but if it dosent then thats great too. Having my family helping me that was more than enough.

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I know... i got u chica...

Asi estoy yo, ZEROOOOOOOO! NADAAAAAAAA

but i guess im just being 'wishful' n 'hoping' things were different but its ok...

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Nunca esperas nada de nadie...para que asi no te desiluciones!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Creo que lo estoy aprendiendo de una manera pesada

Muchas personas me han desilucionado... Y tienes razon, mejor aprendo de una vez por todas NOT to Expect ANYTHING from ANYONE...

ugh! some ppl just SUCK! lol don't worry V, its not even worth stressing! you're awesome and thats all that matters! just have a ball with WHOEVER goes because those are the people that truly care!

OMG OMG OMG


NOW I WANT TO CRY MOREEEEEEEEEE


Besides having like 5people say no....
NOW TWO of my coworkers have said No too...
They just came n told me
'Sorry Veronica I cant go to ur shower. You know how it gets in the summer crazy with the kids. We will probably do somting on that day. Sorry but we will come to ur wedding ok?'

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Posted by VCanizalez

OMG OMG OMG


NOW I WANT TO CRY MOREEEEEEEEEE


Besides having like 5people say no....
NOW TWO of my coworkers have said No too...
They just came n told me
'Sorry Veronica I cant go to ur shower. You know how it gets in the summer crazy with the kids. We will probably do somting on that day. Sorry but we will come to ur wedding ok?'

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aww, V I'm sorry how many people did you invite?

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

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Posted by VCanizalez

OMG OMG OMG


NOW I WANT TO CRY MOREEEEEEEEEE


Besides having like 5people say no....
NOW TWO of my coworkers have said No too...
They just came n told me
'Sorry Veronica I cant go to ur shower. You know how it gets in the summer crazy with the kids. We will probably do somting on that day. Sorry but we will come to ur wedding ok?'

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aww, V I'm sorry how many people did you invite?

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26

So i know i have said this did NOT deserve any tears bnut I couldnt help it...
My eyes are RED as hell now...
I am at work n cant stop crying!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I leave at 6:00 and will not even go to the gym
I dont feel good...

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Posted by VCanizalez

So i know i have said this did NOT deserve any tears bnut I couldnt help it...
My eyes are RED as hell now...
I am at work n cant stop crying!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I leave at 6:00 and will not even go to the gym
I dont feel good...

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Girl I feel you....my FSIL was causing so much drama that I didn't want a shower n was not excited about it. But after alot of talking with my mom I will not allow her to steal my joy and excitiment for my wedding and things involved.

So do not let this drama and people steal your joy!!! If they want to be there they will, and you will see who the important people in your life are. To already say oh you know how the summer is with the kids...It's ONE day...come on. But don't let them get you down and get to you girl!!!!

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Posted by Jmrosa1

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Posted by VCanizalez

So i know i have said this did NOT deserve any tears bnut I couldnt help it...
My eyes are RED as hell now...
I am at work n cant stop crying!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I leave at 6:00 and will not even go to the gym
I dont feel good...

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Girl I feel you....my FSIL was causing so much drama that I didn't want a shower n was not excited about it. But after alot of talking with my mom I will not allow her to steal my joy and excitiment for my wedding and things involved.

So do not let this drama and people steal your joy!!! If they want to be there they will, and you will see who the important people in your life are. To already say oh you know how the summer is with the kids...It's ONE day...come on. But don't let them get you down and get to you girl!!!!

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I know what u mean just hard I guess. U imagine ppl will be there n then ppl are saying no to u. :(
Thanks though I'll try to relax.

So I am just at da park now by myself sitting down n calming myself....

Lol with heels n q dress at a park lol ppl lookin at me like wth is she doin here! Lol

It's ok. I don't wanna go home. My parents will see me with my eyes si red!!!!!! Crying to much but trying to stop now