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Not giving Favors?

TeAmoChris Posted:

Not giving Favors?

How do you ladies feel when you leave a wedding and DO NOT get a favor?

gmcamp Posted:

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I would definitely notice it but it wouldn't bother me too much. I would probably assume that they made a donation and mentioned it somewhere but I didn't see it, since people generally do one or the other.

soon2beMrsHenry92912 Posted:

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I've been to weddings where there was a donation, a traditional favor (some sort of gift) or an edible favor. I honestly liked the weddings best where there was either an edible favor (one was a cupcake, the other homemade Italian cookies) or a donation. The other favors I didn't use or have no use for them. Just my opinion, HTH!

rdhbride Posted:

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Not getting a favor doesn't bother me at all. I don't plan on having a favor, but I will put out signs letting guests know I've donated to a charity in their honor.

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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Posted by rdhbride

Not getting a favor doesn't bother me at all. I don't plan on having a favor, but I will put out signs letting guests know I've donated to a charity in their honor.



this....THIS
LaBellaVita7712 Posted:

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I am not a favor person, I don't think I ever take them, except one wedding which was a bottle of wine. That was a great idea.

I think donations are also much better then getting some silly think you are going to throw out.
mara1017 Posted:

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My FBIL and FSIL did not give favors. I did not notice it at all (until I got engaged and was thinking about what we wanted to do).

mara1017 Posted:

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We are going to have a sign that says that we made a donation in memory of FH's dad to the Michael J Fox Foundation

Watermelon5 Posted:

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ive never honestly been to a wedding where there were no favors - i personally think its a must; its just a token to say thank you for celebrating and what not
cms82288 Posted:

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your giving your guests a wonderful evening.. they do not need somethig to bring home.. its a nice thing to have favors.. but deff not required!

ddms7870 Posted:

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Posted by rdhbride

Not getting a favor doesn't bother me at all. I don't plan on having a favor, but I will put out signs letting guests know I've donated to a charity in their honor.



same here!
leelou48 Posted:

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Posted by gmcamp

I would definitely notice it but it wouldn't bother me too much. I would probably assume that they made a donation and mentioned it somewhere but I didn't see it, since people generally do one or the other.



This!
LMEL1223 Posted:

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Posted by cms82288

your giving your guests a wonderful evening.. they do not need somethig to bring home.. its a nice thing to have favors.. but deff not required!



agreed!
TeAmoChris Posted:

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thanks ladies! appreciate it!

thefloreswedding Posted:

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i wouldnt mind not getting a favor. we are thinking of giving donations, most favors we get are usually tucked away somewhere collecting dust or thrown out (sadly) so i wanted to do something people would use or do a donation with something edible......

Rivera2be Posted:

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I think its a nice gesture to your guests, no matter what the favor is; donation, gift, or edible, just a small token of thanks.
Personally the only favors I've enjoyed at weddings is usually edible or dontation favors. I usually ended up giving any physical item to my SIL as I never needed it.
SoontobeLT Posted:

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I honestly have trouble seeing the point of spending $$ on favors. You're giving guests food, drinks and dancing. If I do favors, it'll be something inexpensive and very likely edible! I think the charity favors are perfect, as well.

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