Not having RD the night before? What to do with OOT bridal party members?

cluelessbride Posted: May 03, 2004 01:40 PM

Not having RD the night before? What to do with OOT bridal party members?

I really do not want to have the RD the night before, I'd rather have it two nights before. But I dont want to inconvenience my OOT bridal party members. Can I have the RD without them? Of 6 BMs, 4 are OOT. For GMs, none are OOT.

I think if they miss the actual rehearsal they will still be fine that day and I can give them their gifts when I see them the night before the wedding.

steph4777 Posted: May 03, 2004 01:44 PM

Re: Not having RD the night before? What to do with OOT bridal party members?

Most of my BP is OOT and they were all OK with coming in Thurs before the wedding. Ask them to see what they want to do.

kazee525 Posted: May 03, 2004 01:51 PM

Re: Not having RD the night before? What to do with OOT bridal party members?

my rehearsal is thursday for a saturday wedding. a lot of the bridal party is oot, if they can't make it, it is okay. most of them are staying at the hotel, so FH will go to the hotel the night before (his side is the OOT ones) to give them their gifts and thank everyone personally. maybe it is not the best approach, but i refuse to do anything the night before the wedding!