Not in a wedding state of mind

amandah75 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 02:54 PM

Not in a wedding state of mind

Anyone else finding this? Feel like with the pending holidays I'm all about buying gifts and getting ready to decorate and bake that I've just abandoned all thought of the wedding.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 02:55 PM

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that happened to me during the summer...i was more concerned with bbq and beer...
It will pass, once the stress of the holidays pass it will be all wedding again!!!

barbtony Posted: Nov 06, 2008 03:39 PM

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Yep - I agree. Sometimes you just need a break from the wedding stuff. It will come back.

T E R I Posted: Nov 06, 2008 03:45 PM

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Absolutely, I feel like i'm suppose to be doing stuff, but i don't have anything to do, so i'm kind of just wedding blah i guess

RedsBride Posted: Nov 06, 2008 03:51 PM

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I agree too but it's been more on and off with me at home. I'm not doing as much as I was before cuz i'm getting a lot busier. And money is tight.

amandah75 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 03:53 PM

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Yeah, think the money thing is also making the wedding thing a drag. Strapped for cash right now with the holidays and even though we'd like to book the DJ, it's just not gonna happen til after January.

It's always about the money.

MrsL2010 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 04:16 PM

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Yea, I feel the same way. I just think it's because I have so much other stuff that needs to get done. I do have a DJ appt next week though. But that will prob be it until after christmas

SummerBride10 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 06:13 PM

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I love love love looking at wedding stuff online, and looking at dresses and CPs and whatnot. WHen it comes to actually making appointments with vendors...I just DONT lol. I'm too lazy.

mosh424 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 06:18 PM

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Don't worry once the holidays pass you will be all about planning again!!!

grrulz Posted: Nov 06, 2008 06:22 PM

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same here! i am not really rushing (which could be bad sometimes) i am waiting for 09 to practically concentrate more on the wedding

Nurse12985 Posted: Nov 06, 2008 06:58 PM

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Yeah the holidays take alot out of me!

RitasEngaged Posted: Nov 06, 2008 07:43 PM

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I thought I would have had like everything done already - and everybody thought I would. right now i am just being lazy.

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Nov 06, 2008 10:20 PM

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This happened to me over the summer... it passes... and right now, if we have the time and the funds to book something we will... if not, it can wait. There's more than one vendor out there.