Not sure if I should be....

RussianBride Posted: Jun 14, 2013 11:34 PM

Not sure if I should be....

Pissed at my sisiter...she is my matron of honor and is throwing me my bach party. They have something planned during the day...she wont say what but did say we will be a little tipsy after and that we won't be near the city....so I'm guessing its a wine tour!
So they are trying to figure out what to do for the evening...and I said I wanted to go to a male strip club....my sister said she doesn't know cos it's not her thing....ummmm, isn't this MY party? anyway, she said she doesnt wanna drive into the city and doesnt wanna spend a lot cos they are all apending a lot for the day activity.
I'm not sure if I should just understand or be upset (which I am, but didn't tell her). How much are wine tours anyway?
Is it wrong that I wanna go to a stripper show? This is the last & only time I'm allowed to do this!
I just feel like I always try my best to please other people and do what they want & my sister is not listening to what I want...am I just being a bridezilla? Ughhhhh

P.S. FH is in AC now for his bachelor party & I know they are going to a strip club...I wanna have some fun too!

MrsB92713 Posted: Jun 15, 2013 10:49 AM

Not sure if I should be....

I would just explain it to her. Tell her this is your time and this is what you'd like to do. I had a similar situation with my girls and I just kept telling everyone this isn't really my vision for this, but there were a few of the girls who wouldn't even speak to me about it because it was a 'suprise'. I finally had to get my mom to tell them no suprise and no strippers. LOL. But like I said explain to her and all the other maids that this is what you want to do, maybe do that instead of the wine tour if money is an issue.

RussianBride Posted: Jun 15, 2013 12:49 PM

Re: Not sure if I should be....

Thanks, yeah ill tell her but I think the wine tour is paid for so not sure they can get money back, but I will tell her what I want & see what happens. I really don't wanna be involved & wanna trust them to plan something they know I will like - since they all know me very well. But we'll see....

vppjzv Posted: Jun 15, 2013 01:01 PM

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mccoyrh Posted: Jun 15, 2013 01:41 PM

Re: Not sure if I should be....

Posted by vppjzv

If they're doing a bus thing maybe they can hire one for you? Or for before/after?

This. I say if you really want to go to a strip club, asked the girls if they want to continue the party. Those who want to go will. Those who don't - go home.
It's your day. Do what you want and most of all enjoy!!!

RussianBride Posted: Jun 15, 2013 07:57 PM

Re: Not sure if I should be....

There's 6 girls going so I don't wanna go with just a few. Not sure if they're doing a bus (think we are all driving there). Hopefully we'll figure it out. Thanks for the ideas!