FH is driving me crazy! Throughout the whole planning process he has absolutely no opinion at all now he loves the RH that I hate! The one that I love he hates! The only reason I even considered his hall was because of the price (he's a big budget guy) but it turns out the hall that I love is actually cheaper! and he still hates it. i don't know what to do. I don't want to be selfish but i can't see myself compromising on this HELP!
halfbaked
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Unfortunately, it's his wedding, too. What is the venue you are in love with? What do you love about it? Maybe some of the brides here can recommend similar places. Also, what venue is he in love with? Maybe we can find a fusion of the two! Wedding planning is all about compromise!
Notwedyet08
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I understand but like prior poster said it's his wedding too.
FH & I have a tight budget; i wanted to do a Friday or Sunday Evening but he's totally against those two days-he thinks they're too much of an inconveience i tollay disagree; but as a compromise i'm willing to do a Saturday late afternoon. I wish i could make all the decisions; but at the end of the day it is nice to know i'm not doing everything on my own. (As much as i get annoyed by his input at the WRONG times) LOL!
FutureJOC
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Agree with compromise!
FH and I are both paying for this wedding and although I have ideas and things I may want to do for this wedding or certain vendors I may want to book, I will always go straight to FH and talk with him about it and if he thinks we could spend them $$ elsewhere on something more important I will completely take his thoughts into consideration.
dianeb888
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I understand, FH was not crazy about the Hall that I loved (the thought of getting married anywhere else made me cry) In the end he saw how much it meant to me and agreed to book it. Maybe you can try to explain to him why you love it so much and maybe he will see it your way. Good luck
