The deadline is next week and we're still waiting for like 100 responses!
We have had SO MANY no's....I'm actually worried we're not going to meet the minimum which I had never thought would be a problem. So many people who have something else going on now that day....it really makes me feel how unimportant we are to certain people.
And we've just gotten our first retracted RSVP. A woman and her husband who originally said yes, can't make it now. I mean, I'm not unreasonable, life happens, but gee it makes me feel good that you're blowing off my wedding for another party. I feel like people forget what it was like to be a bride or groom or parents of a bride or groom. People are just so inconsiderate.
Its just all of this plus work has been miserable for me and I desperately want to find a new job. I'm just really stressed out
Ok, vent over. Thanks for listening.
SoonToBeMrsFox
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you really learn who your true friends are during this process.
don't let it get you down.
FutureMRS.Benn
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you really learn who your true friends are during this process.
don't let it get you down.
This exactly! Sorry hun!
mybabylovesmoi
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i'm so sorry you're disappointed! I hope these lazy bums turn in their RSVP's asap. I definitely agree that people forget how stressful this process is and how EASY it is for them to make it smoother for the bride
chilly313
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We had a couple of people have to retract their yes RSVPs because of work obligations that they absolutely could not get out of. I know they would be at the wedding if there was any way at all they could be (each of their spouses is still coming). I'm sure the people who had to change their reponses were not happy about it. Just remember, there will be so many people there who are happy to be a part of your day and you will have a great time, not matter what.
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you really learn who your true friends are during this process.
don't let it get you down.
Definitely!
SoonToBeMrsCali
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We all know what you're going through. I was talking with FH the other day about just wanting the planning to be over because I'm ready for it to be. But don't worry, there will be MANY people there that love and cherish this time just as much as you and your FH do.
leesah85
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox
you really learn who your true friends are during this process.