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now i'm freaking about invitations

jesca Posted:

now i'm freaking about invitations

i thought they were sent out 8 weeks before the wedding? i see so many girls with dates around mine who have already sent theirs out. i havent even started putting them together
MrsC2010 Posted:

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some people send them out more than 8 weeks if they have a lot of OOT guests of if the wedding is on a friday and people have to take off etc.....

don't worry! 8 weeks is plenty of time
soontobecruz Posted:

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I would say the averagei s 8 -10 weeks. With an RSVP return date of anywhere from 5-4 weeks before the wedding.

Also if the weddings fall on or near a holiday it is a good idea to send them a little extra early.
grkbarbie Posted:

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yea i havent had mine sent out..

they supposed to come in tomrorow.
StaceyWill Posted:

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Hey date twin~~ don't worry, you have time...I sent mine out the week of Feb 15th just because they were in my house, all assembled and I got antsy.

Diana508 Posted:

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Posted by jesca

i thought they were sent out 8 weeks before the wedding? i see so many girls with dates around mine who have already sent theirs out. i havent even started putting them together


Oh no! Hope I didn't freak you out!! I wanted 6 weeks for an RSVP date to minimize tracking people down (which I'll prob have to do anyway).
jme78 Posted:

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I think the etiquette is to send them out 6-8 weeks in advance.

Some people like to send them a lot earlier than that, but its not necessary.
JC297 Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

yea i havent had mine sent out..

they supposed to come in tomrorow.



I thought you got your invites already?
jesca Posted:

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our rsvp is 4 weeks from the wedding. honestly, maybe its better. as terrible as this sounds, we didnt do STDs because we're hoping not everyone can show. we also dont have a huge # of OOTs, except for close family who have known for a long time now.

christine2010 Posted:

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our wedding is April 23 & our response date is March 20. we mailed our invitations February 8.

so they where mailed out 10 weeks before the wedding & 6 weeks before the response date. i was hoping people would respond earlier this way. we have only received 25 responses so far & we sent out 74 invites.
lissylissa Posted:

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No 8 weeks is plenty of time don't worry!

grrulz Posted:

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its actually a personal preference i happened to sent mine earlier because people tend to take til the last minute to rsvp i wanted to give them extra time that way is not that annoying to hunt them down

marinai7 Posted:

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Etiquette says 6-8 weeks so you'll be fine. Some people send earlier if they have a lot of OOT guests.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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as long as they are out buy 3/15 its fine

Iluvpoodles Posted:

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I'm around your time and I haven't sent mine out either. Don't worry.

FutureMrsKuehne Posted:

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im sending mine about 9 1/2 weeks in advance, mine is the week after yours, and im sending them out around 3/10!

ur ok!!
Iluvpoodles Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

im sending mine about 9 1/2 weeks in advance, mine is the week after yours, and im sending them out around 3/10!

ur ok!!


When is your RSVP date? A month before?
depoc1011 Posted:

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Posted by Sora777


Posted by grkbarbie

yea i havent had mine sent out..

they supposed to come in tomrorow.



I thought you got your invites already?


me too!
everything okay?
May 2010 Bride Posted:

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Posted by jesca

i thought they were sent out 8 weeks before the wedding? i see so many girls with dates around mine who have already sent theirs out. i havent even started putting them together




Hello date twin....

If it make you feel any better, I havent sent mine out yet either.

Clover23 Posted:

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Posted by May 2010 Bride


Posted by jesca

i thought they were sent out 8 weeks before the wedding? i see so many girls with dates around mine who have already sent theirs out. i havent even started putting them together




Hello date twin....

If it make you feel any better, I havent sent mine out yet either.




same here!!!

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