now that i am getting married i was just thinking

Original post by jcslady

Jan 20, 2008 11:34 PM

about some of my ex's !!!!
i had some long relationships and i think about how crazy they were

does anyone else think of ex's????

gabbie83 Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:14 AM

Re: now that i am getting married i was just thinking

Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

I almost forgot -- one of my f ing exes stole my identity and GET THIS he used my credit to buy an engagement ring for his then stripper girlfriend

omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Future Mulligan Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:17 AM

Re: now that i am getting married i was just thinking

the thought of one of them makes me want to throw up.....its not that i hate him i just hate myself for dating him

there is another person that i wonder about - we were like best friends - i dont think of him romantically or want to be with him again or anything like that - but i guess i just miss the friendship we had - we had something really different - i dont know how to explain it.....i think we both loved eachother and were in love with eachother at some point but it just didn't work out - some things just aren't meant to be.....so i guess i miss him but on a friend level only (we did know eachother for like 10 years and we spent countless hours with eachother) so sometimes i feel like i lost my best friend......but in reality i cant see us ever being friends again b/c we had a very flirtacious friendship and things did happen between us and it would just be awkward and strange

gabbie83 Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:18 AM

Re: now that i am getting married i was just thinking

i was with one guy for over 3 yrs before i met FH - i am happy that things happened the way they did. Everything happens for a reason. I could not imagine my life without FH even though we've only been together for 10 months.
I am in a different place right now, at the time with my ex my life was different, i lived with my parents, it wasnt too serious.
when someone is not ready to take the next step with you, thats when you know that you have to move on, by yourself.
I moved on by myself & my FH came into my life and swept me off my feet and made me believe that there are normal wonderful guys still out there.

Love him to death.

Still wonder sometimes whats going on in my xs life butt..... i hated all the drama so im soo much better off :)

Mici n KC Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:25 AM

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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

Posted by jcslady

Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

I think about where they are now and how I wasted some serious time chasing after losers

ha ha right!!! and i thought they were sooooo great at the time..... what a joke

me too!!!
However, I could never truly see myself growing old with any of them and breaking up was ALWAYS an option when we had a fight.
That's how I knew FH was the one -- I see us together till the end and breaking up is no longer an automatic solution!

So true!

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:50 AM

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Posted by Future Mulligan

the thought of one of them makes me want to throw up.....its not that i hate him i just hate myself for dating him

there is another person that i wonder about - we were like best friends - i dont think of him romantically or want to be with him again or anything like that - but i guess i just miss the friendship we had - we had something really different - i dont know how to explain it.....i think we both loved eachother and were in love with eachother at some point but it just didn't work out - some things just aren't meant to be.....so i guess i miss him but on a friend level only (we did know eachother for like 10 years and we spent countless hours with eachother) so sometimes i feel like i lost my best friend......but in reality i cant see us ever being friends again b/c we had a very flirtacious friendship and things did happen between us and it would just be awkward and strange

I had a great friend in High School that I knew had strong feelings for me but it never developed into anything. Well, we lost touch and I recently found him on MySpace but his wife doesn't really want us to talk too much because he told her about how he felt back then. He said she never came out and said what the hell are you doing but that there have been some uncomfortable silences. So out of respect for her we limit our contact to the occasional e-mail.
I was crushed.

mRm2008 Posted: Jan 21, 2008 09:53 AM

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Posted by jcslady

Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

Posted by jcslady

Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri

I think about where they are now and how I wasted some serious time chasing after losers

ha ha right!!! and i thought they were sooooo great at the time..... what a joke

me too!!!
However, I could never truly see myself growing old with any of them and breaking up was ALWAYS an option when we had a fight.
That's how I knew FH was the one

i hear ya! my relationships were so up and down!!
i am so happy i didn't stay with them:)