Now that most of the 06ers are married or completed our wedding planning...

diluvchu Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:07 PM

Now that most of the 06ers are married or completed our wedding planning...

Do you find your wedding etiquette has changed?

i.e. - Do you respond quicker? Do you dance at weddings now more than before?, etc., etc.

sarahbelle Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:11 PM

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Yes to both!

I got an invite last week and I put the RSVP in the mail the same day. I am VERY proud of myself. And, I will definitely dance at their wedding.

BEANS Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:12 PM

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I always responded quickly. I have been to 2 weddings since mine & I feel like I now analyze
every part!

soontobemrsv Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:16 PM

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Thats so funny you asked. We have a wedding coming up and I responded the day I received it, I know what it's like waiting for responses, so I made sure to get it done quickly :)

ewickens Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:17 PM

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I def. dance more - if only I could get FH to dance more!!!!

as for invites - I will return it as soon as I get it, unless it's for one of those people I invited and never heard a peep from until I reminded them - payback is a bi*tch!!! and 2 of our GM are doing this to me and one gets married in May!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:21 PM

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Yes I definitely respond faster, I used to be such a slacker with that - but now I know what its like to wait and wait for the RSVPs so I try and send it out the same or the next day.

I always danced at weddings, so that hasn't changed.

I think I might be more mindful to tell the B&G how much of a good time I am having, how wonderful the food is, the music is, etc.

franksgirl323 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:24 PM

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Yes! I am much more aware of manners and such. I make sure to act in a way that I hope all of my guests do.

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:27 PM

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Sometimes yes and sometimes no. I consult with DH to make sure there are no other plans for that day.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:27 PM

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I ALWAYS dance - but I DO RSVP right away!

CLMon7906 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:32 PM

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No, I was always quick to respond and I still lack all rhythm so there is still no dancing...but I am confident that you can wear 4' heels and not fall flat on your face.

dbleplay17 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 04:41 PM

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YESSSSSSSSSSSSS! That is so funny

when we came back from our HM the net day we had a wedding we danced so much!

we have another one coming up next week

july06bride Posted: Aug 14, 2006 05:17 PM

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Yes, however I was always a quick responder and we always dance-but I am more mindful of the Bride and Groom-and gifts-and all their details I know they worked hard on!

However, I need to add, that the B*tch in me came out recently ...we were invited to a wedding...the Bride and Groom responded late to our wedding-VERY LATE-like we got it the week of the wedding-they gave no gift-yet on their invite they wrote 'purse requested' ...so just to be not so nice-we responded LATE to the wedding-we just sent it out...not nice-I know, but I was furious-we are not that close to these people-but have some manners-I know I know two wrongs dont make a right LOL

CaMacho Posted: Aug 14, 2006 05:49 PM

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I was just in a wedding last week and I found myself looking at EVERYTHING! The centerpieces, favors, certain songs, different shots the photographer was getting, etc... I never cared about that before I was engaged!

beautyq115 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 05:53 PM

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I try to respond as quick as I can....our first wedding after ours will be in October...sent the RSVP back and cannot wait to dance the night away!

Kris516 Posted: Aug 14, 2006 06:26 PM

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I always dance at weddings, but I must admit, I was a slacker when it came to RSVPs...yes, I was one of those girls!!

Now, not only do I get them in on time, I write something cute inside like, 'I can;t wait!' - I loved it when people did that in mine.