As if things couldn't get any more crazy.....after everything has transpired over the weekend............................now they've all decided that they're going to come...for FH's sake....in spite of all the things MY FAMILY DID TO THEM! I have no fight left in me, I'm done, I won't speak to them at the wedding, I will be in no pictures with them and I will not go to their table at the reception, I'll treat them the way they've treated me, its like up until this afternoon, all they've done is LIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And now FH spoke to his mom for 40 minutes, and says everything is over, but let's see if it's really true!
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and the saga continues.....
GEEZ girl!!!!
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UGH!!!!
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You poor thing ... I can't even keep up with all of your FIL drama ... I feel so awful for you!
Just enjoy your wedding, ignore the ILs and be in love with your hubby.
Hope things calm down in the next couple of weeks for you
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Sorry you have to deal with this!
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Ugh I'm sorry you have to deal with this
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I am so sorry you have to deal with this during what should be the happiest time of your life.
I know it's hard (I have FIL issues too), but you have to focus on you and FH. Try not to let it get to you too much. We're all here if you need us.
At least, they are doing the 'right' thing for FH. The last thing in the world you want is for FH to be sad because his family isn't there on his wedding day (no matter how crazy they are).
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Wow! this is just crazy. So sorry.
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Oy vey. I just don't get it sometimes. . .
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Im going to give you some advice :)
JUST enjoy the day. Its not worth your energy to avoid them all day. Instead of having fun at the wedding, all your going to think about is:
'how can I avoid them' 'they are standing at the bar, I cant go over there' 'the photog is gathering us, I wont be near them'
DONT let this be what you are thinking about on the wedding day. Let yourself have fun. Let it all go. DONT waste your energy on them!
YOU deserve better. Give yourself the gift of no worries. If they talk smack laugh at them.
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I'm so sorry Jenna!!!
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OMG im exhausted from the situation and its not me. lol. They are too much D-R-A-M-A. you poor thing just enjoy your day and dont let them ruin it.
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Im sorry Jenna
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ugh! i'm sorry that you have to deal with all this crapola!! it's so ridiculous!
i hope you can just sorta ignore them and enjoy the love you have with FH and enjoy your special day, despite these ridiculous antics!
to you!! keep your chin up!!
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Well one thing we know is how much you really love FH, because to put up with this FMIL you know its TRUE LOVE!!!
Sorry your going through this. What is wrong with this woman?
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OMGosh!! Why are they doing this to you!! Thats messed up!! But brush your shoulders and keep moving along as planned.. As if they didnt exsist... Trust me its hard but your a better person!!
