NOW WE HAVE SEATING DEMANDS

Original post by jennaandguy09

May 14, 2009 08:05 PM

I get an email from this biatch today, tell me who she wants to sit with, she goes, please call me so we can discuss this, no emails, *** WHY DON'T YOU CALL ME @$$HOLE?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?! This woman is going to be the death of me, I can't stand it, and then her sister emails me with the same boneheaded garbage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xosweetiexo Posted: May 14, 2009 10:53 PM

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Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by xosweetiexo

Wait!!!!!!! I GOT IT!!!!!!!! Give her the seat right next to the DJ so that it bothers her and she can leave early so you dont have to deal with her lol

OMG thats brilliant!!!! but not just next to the dj next to the SPEAKERS

her ears will be ringing all night!!!

jennaandguy09 Posted: May 14, 2009 11:49 PM

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by xosweetiexo

Wait!!!!!!! I GOT IT!!!!!!!! Give her the seat right next to the DJ so that it bothers her and she can leave early so you dont have to deal with her lol

OMG thats brilliant!!!! but not just next to the dj next to the SPEAKERS

her ears will be ringing all night!!!

I'm gonna seat them in the other room, when they don't recognize anyone maybe theyll get the hint!!

MrsCM Posted: May 15, 2009 01:18 AM

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I wouldn't call her at all. That's flat out rude plus who does she think she is to say no emails, etc. She RSVP'd to your wedding and seating is difficult enough, you don't need this.

Ann 52409 Posted: May 15, 2009 06:49 AM

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Oh I had the SAMEEEE thing too, and people determined to see the seating chart, etc. People really just dont care

kristen1226 Posted: May 15, 2009 08:40 AM

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FMIL told us that she only wants 4 other people at her table and FH got so mad. He told her that he was going to put her at a table of 20 lol I mean, seriously, we having tables of 10 or 12.. a table of 6 is just ridiculous!

Its our wedding, its our night.. just let us enjoy it! I don't understand why everyone has so many opinions that they feel they need to share.

KerriJohnS Posted: May 15, 2009 10:33 AM

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Posted by jennaandguy09

Posted by xosweetiexo

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by xosweetiexo

Wait!!!!!!! I GOT IT!!!!!!!! Give her the seat right next to the DJ so that it bothers her and she can leave early so you dont have to deal with her lol

OMG thats brilliant!!!! but not just next to the dj next to the SPEAKERS

her ears will be ringing all night!!!

I'm gonna seat them in the other room, when they don't recognize anyone maybe theyll get the hint!!

These are all some of the funniest things I've read this morning! I love all these suggestions! Near the speakers, near the garbage or dumpster, or in another room with another party! THIS IS GREAT STUFF GIRLS!!!!!

Jen... after you get married... you will have to fill us in for the rest of your life on what's going on with this woman. I know deep down it's really frusterating for you to have to deal with on a constant ongoing basis... but on a very selfish level for me... I can't contain myself from reading what happens next! Everytime you post something about her... I'm soooo compelled to open it. I can't not. The audacity this woman seems to have all the time is just outstanding, shocking, and appauling!!!!! Maybe you should take notes on it... then one day right a book off of it and makes tons and tons of money from it. Just don't forget to cut me a share to giving you the idea!

I think SHE should call you. What are you going to do? I think I would write back... you can call me when you are free to discuss. Then regardless of what is said on the phone or through other emails... just do what you want to do in the end anyway. If she puts up a stink at the reception... have someone escort her out. She's a total NUT JOB!!!!

littlepixie12 Posted: May 15, 2009 10:35 AM

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Well I can relate to this because my FMIL already emailed me about who she wants to sit with and who she feels her ex husband (FFIL) should sit with and she also wants her daughter (FSIL and BM), son in law and granddaugher (GM and FG) to sit at her table and not the BP table!

Future Mrs Roo Posted: May 15, 2009 11:00 AM

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I wouldnt even respond and seat them where I want them to sit.

caligirl87 Posted: May 15, 2009 11:45 AM

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I would make FH deal with it. It's his mom and it'll be much easier for him to intervene and save you from this craziness.

BeLissa Posted: May 15, 2009 11:57 AM

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no emails??? who is she, the effing president????????

seriously, dont respond and seat her wherever you want to!!!!!!! what b@lls.

bag19 Posted: May 15, 2009 12:11 PM

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crazyyyyy

soo sorry you have to deal with this nonsense!!!

gina409 Posted: May 15, 2009 12:37 PM

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just smile and nod then act like it never happened..im so sorry u have to dea lwith this

skinny237 Posted: May 15, 2009 12:54 PM

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I would email them both and say,

'Thank you for submitting your seat request. Unfortunately we are unable to take seating requests for our wedding. If this affects your decision to attend the wedding, please let me know no later than May 23 so I can ask someone else to take your place.'

People are idiots.

Juhgail Posted: May 15, 2009 12:56 PM

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Posted by skinny237

I would email them both and say,

'Thank you for submitting your seat request. Unfortunately we are unable to take seating requests for our wedding. If this affects your decision to attend the wedding, please let me know no later than May 23 so I can ask someone else to take your place.'

People are idiots.

LMAO!!!

jennaandguy09 Posted: May 17, 2009 03:18 PM

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Posted by KerriJohnS

Posted by jennaandguy09

Posted by xosweetiexo

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by Sweeteey51

Posted by xosweetiexo

Wait!!!!!!! I GOT IT!!!!!!!! Give her the seat right next to the DJ so that it bothers her and she can leave early so you dont have to deal with her lol

OMG thats brilliant!!!! but not just next to the dj next to the SPEAKERS

her ears will be ringing all night!!!

I'm gonna seat them in the other room, when they don't recognize anyone maybe theyll get the hint!!

These are all some of the funniest things I've read this morning! I love all these suggestions! Near the speakers, near the garbage or dumpster, or in another room with another party! THIS IS GREAT STUFF GIRLS!!!!!

Jen... after you get married... you will have to fill us in for the rest of your life on what's going on with this woman. I know deep down it's really frusterating for you to have to deal with on a constant ongoing basis... but on a very selfish level for me... I can't contain myself from reading what happens next! Everytime you post something about her... I'm soooo compelled to open it. I can't not. The audacity this woman seems to have all the time is just outstanding, shocking, and appauling!!!!! Maybe you should take notes on it... then one day right a book off of it and makes tons and tons of money from it. Just don't forget to cut me a share to giving you the idea!

I think SHE should call you. What are you going to do? I think I would write back... you can call me when you are free to discuss. Then regardless of what is said on the phone or through other emails... just do what you want to do in the end anyway. If she puts up a stink at the reception... have someone escort her out. She's a total NUT JOB!!!!

Kerri I'm TOTALLY cutting you in if and when I write that book!!!!!

I haven't had contact with her since that email, I won't call her, let her call me, I made the seating chart already and I did my best to accommodate everyone but I can't please everyone all the time, so she can sit where I PUT HER, or she can pay for the tables with her family (2) and then she can put people wherever she feels they belong....I figure take the path of least resistance and have NO dialogue with her through the wedding, and when the day of the wedding comes, I'll be polite and civil, and then if FH wants to see her after that point it's his choice, but I choose to remove myself from the situation and not talk to them again, I'll kwwp you updated, I'm sure this isn' t the end