NRC Brides

It gives these three on their website...

http://www.marriott.com/hotels/travel/nycsy-fairfield-inn-syosset-long-island/

http://www.starwoodhotels.com/fourpoints/property/overview/index.html?propertyID=1476

http://www.marriott.com/hotels/travel/nycml-melville-marriott-long-island/

I booked rooms at Fox Hollow for myself and my guests for the night before and night of. So far they have been so great to work with and in the price includes a lot, like a buffet dinner and breakfast. All rooms are suites with almost a full kitchen in each room. Definitely worth checking out.

I'm not using a shuttle through them (I'm not sure if they even have one) but I'm having a limo take guests to and from the hotel to the reception hall

Former NRC'er here

We used the Huntington Hilton on Route 110.

They arranged for the shuttle, but it was additional. I don't remember how much though.