Am I wrong to be annoyed that my MOH got a bunch of star tattoos on her back yet she hasnt bought her MOH dress yet??
Ugh... why can't I just be happy for her?
christine12
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Ugh! No, I would be annoyed too!
VCanizalez
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I would b annoyed too chica... das not nice =-(
SoonToBeMrsCali
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I know she's going through that change phase, her divorce is almost finalized ... but still.. It doesnt look good when she's 'trying to find time' to go and order her dress.
hiswifey2011
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BOOOOOOOO ... i told you ... if you need BM replacements! holler at me ... lol
MrsKon1111
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i would be annoyed also
Im getting Married
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I'm going to have to be honest. I don't see being made at someone for getting tatts. Our weddings are 1 day just because someone accepts to be in the wedding party does not mean their life stops.
I'm not being mean so please don't take it that way.
annabellagirl
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wait??? are you mad because her tattoos are going to be visable???
or mad that she hasn't taken time to BUY the dress yet??
why are you actually mad LOL
sorry im confused LOL
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I'm going to have to be honest. I don't see being made at someone for getting tatts. Our weddings are 1 day just because someone accepts to be in the wedding party does not mean their life stops.
I'm not being mean so please don't take it that way.
I totally understand what you mean and I definitely wouldnt want her life to stop for my 1 day..
she has been stalling due to money issues... yet Tattoos cost a lot... I dont want to dictate to her how to spend her money i pretty much said i would buy it for her if she wanted to pay me back eventually over time, but no bite... im just a little annoyed, but i will talk to her about it
SoonToBeMrsCali
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more disappointed that she hasnt purchased the dress .....
tattoos can be covered with a shall or makeup..
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I'm going to have to be honest. I don't see being made at someone for getting tatts. Our weddings are 1 day just because someone accepts to be in the wedding party does not mean their life stops.
I'm not being mean so please don't take it that way.
I totally understand what you mean and I definitely wouldnt want her life to stop for my 1 day..
she has been stalling due to money issues... yet Tattoos cost a lot... I dont want to dictate to her how to spend her money i pretty much said i would buy it for her if she wanted to pay me back eventually over time, but no bite... im just a little annoyed, but i will talk to her about it
Oh I think I misunderstood and thought you were mad that she got tatt not that she hadn't gotten her dress.
So I would agree I would be upset if she said she can't afford the dress but paid for tattoos
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I'm going to have to be honest. I don't see being made at someone for getting tatts. Our weddings are 1 day just because someone accepts to be in the wedding party does not mean their life stops.
I'm not being mean so please don't take it that way.
I totally understand what you mean and I definitely wouldnt want her life to stop for my 1 day..
she has been stalling due to money issues... yet Tattoos cost a lot... I dont want to dictate to her how to spend her money i pretty much said i would buy it for her if she wanted to pay me back eventually over time, but no bite... im just a little annoyed, but i will talk to her about it
OHHHH ok, i got ya now! Well yea, she shouldnt be spending $$$$ on tattoos if she is complaining about $ to begin with- And also, dresses have a habit of becoming discontinued! She should at least go look and put a deposit down or something!
I thought u were mad bc she was gettin tattoos and you didnt want them to show LOL
So yea, i would be annoyed!
SoonToBeMrsCali
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sorry for all the confusion..
and she wrote on FB that round 2 is in 2 weeks (assuming after the next paycheck).......
Jennielee15
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You probably should't be annoyed but I'm annoyed that all of my bridesmaids who have always had long hair just chopped their hair off! So we all get annoyed about stupid things!
atitus724
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im pissed at one of my bm's too...she went to the city and partied last night but cant afford her 100 dollar dress to order it???
ItalianBella1122
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I completely understand.... If she was spending money on something she needed it would be one thing....and people might disagree with me, but when you agree to be a member of a bridal party, you are accepting certain obligations that come along with that...really the only real requirement is that you purchase your dress and show up that day! Its not right that she's purposefully choosing to ignore that responsibility. I can't tell anyone how to spend their money but I do have the right to be annoyed when they place me low on their priorities list....JMO.