NWR: Anxiety!!!!

Well, I am an anxious mess!!! Everything with my wedding planning process has finally worked out, (had an issue with RH, but that is resolved) So FH and I started looking to buy a co op , and found the perfect one! We were so excited, and We put in a offer, and the offer was accepted.

Here's the problem...I am in the process of being offered a full time job, and so far.....Stand still, My getting this apartment is contingent on me having this job!!! I spoke with HR, and they said they wanted to move forward in the hiring process and check my references, and that was like 2 weeks ago!!! I should have waited until I had a firm offer to make a bid, but I was so sure I had it! Now, it has been 2 weeks since I made the offer and have not had my paper work done because I am still waiting!!! ARRGGGGHHHH!!! I am working through an agency at present and make excellent money, but This month has been slow! So it looks like I have only been working 16 hrs!!!!

I am such a mess, I feel like everything is slipping through my fingers!!!

Thanks for letting me vent! Say a prayer for me if you will!!!

Oh, I hope it all works out for you!!!!

I wonder what's taking them so long getting your references?? Maybe the people they are trying to contact are on vacation or something like that?

Don't stress.......it will be ok!

I know reference checks can take there sweet time, almost three weeks!! Hang in there!!!

everything will fall into place im just sorry its a sticky situation i hate how things happen like that

Don't stress about it. It will all work out. It is a busy time of the year for everyone.

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Posted by billandme

Oh, I hope it all works out for you!!!!

I wonder what's taking them so long getting your references?? Maybe the people they are trying to contact are on vacation or something like that?

Don't stress.......it will be ok!

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Thank you!!!

Well, I forgot to mention that HR was having a hard time reaching my referances, so they call me and said to please call my references and have them call her, Finally on monday, I called to follow up and she said 'I spoke to them all, I am working on a deadline right now, and I will get back to you in the next 2 days' ARRGGGHHHH! I know that my references gave me an excellent reference, my past director loves me! but this waiting is killing me,

Hope everything works out, which it probably will, hang in there

it's lunch time and still no call I hate this, this is all I can think about

I hope it all works out

EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT GIRL!!! Dont stress so much. I also am a nervous wreck usually, and its JUST NOT WORTH IT when u step back and take a look at yourself.. Everything will fall into place. I will keep you in my

hey chica!!! I know this is super stressful for you right now, but look on the bright side, the people selling the co-op accepted your offer right away and most likely they won't be anxious to sell to someone else b/c you made an offer they liked. also, considering this is generally a slow time of year for real estate sales, they will probably be more willing to wait for your paperwork to go through. and don't forget the sellers are also looking for a house, so now with your offer they can go shopping for their own house......that will buy you some time.

as you know......this is what i went through last year w/ the crazy kumar (aka tony lol) people when we were selling our house......it was the most stressful time of my life! way more stress than wedding planning! my only advice is try not to think about what's next, just deal with whatever is going on at that moment. Real estate is like a big game sometimes and it really stinks!!! you know i'm here for you!!

4pm Still no word. I am so upset! Thank you all for all your prayers and support!!!

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Posted by rn4u2go

4pm Still no word. I am so upset! Thank you all for all your prayers and support!!!

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awwwwwww mimi try to hang in there....i know all this grownup $hit $ucks!!!!!!!!!! lets all go back to the avenue and sit on the curb with a cig...lololol wait ill go tell helen im sure she'll be down for it shes a homeowner for gods sake!....lol

I JUST WENT THROUGH THIS SAME SCENARIO in October....and it was far more stressful than any wedding planning!

It worked for me and it will for you too. Let me tell you that you still have time....did you do the inspection yet? If there are some issues there (there always are) you will be given some extra time b/c they will have fix the problems.

This will definitely work out....the co-op board will not fault you for working for a short time....just give them your working history and tell them the scenario (if you don't already have the offer)

Just keep your cool. things will definitely work out, one way or another .You will likely get the coop and the job.

If for any reason you don't, it is because there was something wrong with the house, like a major termite infestation or horrible rodent problem and some great grandparent is watching over you and pushing you to the next perfect condo.

Keep us informed!