So my old best friend, it was a really bad falling out but we talk here and there, just got engaged and i am really hopeing that our engagments will bring us back together!!!! i just needed to share my feelings bc I can't with FH bc he hates her!!! But deep down i really miss her thamks for listening!!
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I have a similar situation. She's not engaged, but we had a falling out like 3 years ago. FH never even met her. It's hard when you lose a friend that you love. I hope you guys work things out...I know I miss her.
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Sorry Hon...
Hope things work out
Summer Bride 2011
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I hope everything works out!
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i hope everything works out for you and ur friend! Sometimes, weddings bring out the best in people and you guys may realize that you can't imagine your weddings without each other! Hopefully all goes well
JillandNick2011
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thanks everyone
LaBellaVita622
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aww I hope so! .I wasn't in the same situation but similar..FH & my bf hated eachother & it drove my bf & I not to speak for a year and a half for basically no reason. We didn't fight we just stopped talking. I was heartbroken when I got engaged & she wasn't there to share it with me. But I would cry to FH that I missed her so much, none of my friends are what she as so me. As much as they didn't get along he told me to call her. A few days later a mutal friend had run into her & she said she missed me. That was enough for me..I wrote her a huge facebook message & since September it's been like we never stopped being friends. Her & FH just got off on the wrong foot and are alot better to eachother & she will be my BM. Sooo I hope it all works out for you guys too!
*Maybe you can try to talk to FH like I did. If he sees how sad you are & hoe much you miss her I'm sure he will support you.
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Awwww I hope so too! My best friend and I had a falling out and we've recently started talking again but then she just did something totally messed up during the week while she was up here visiting. But anyway, I hope her engagement can bring you two together and be there for each other with planning!!!
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I'm in a similar situation. My former best friend and I stopped talking a few years ago. We didn't have a falling out...life got in the way and we just stopped talking and lost touch with each other. Since I've been engaged I've just been missing her a lot and would really want her to be a part of my life again. So I think I'm going to contact her and hope that we can become close again.
I hope that everything works out for you and your friend. I think that big life changes cause you to realize how much you miss someone because you can't imagine going through it without them by your side. Good luck!
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Thanks everyone!!! My fh doesn't care if I talk to her or not but he wants nothing to do with her bc she was the main reason he and his bf stopped talking. What me and FH went through was so insane that its hard to forget but i do miss her. But i also cant forget what happened I guess time will tell
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I had a falling out with my old best friend about 3 years ago and its prob the best thing that ever happened to me. It was so funny how me n FH got together. Long story short she was the one who pressured me to go out with him they were closer then I was with him and we did started hanging out and then she said she didnt like him and we should break up well we did take a break for about a month and it was horrible. I missed him but now were engaged and I havent talked to her in years I am so happy I did what I wanted to do. I still get mad everytime I think about how our falling out happened. And to make it worse now with the wedding all our old friends keep bringing her up so I've been having dreams that she just shows up for my eparty and wedding and wake up sooo mad hopefully those dreams stop and I told ppl that if she does show up they better take care of it b4 I see her cuz she will ruin my day.
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I hope it works out. I know what is like to lose your best friend. Good luck.