NWR- Can't you just be helpful!

Beth1210 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:11 AM

NWR- Can't you just be helpful!

ok so secert what my husband does for a living

so I am on the home board and thee have been serious debates about bank vs brokers-

in the past I have always said bank unless there is a issue- bad credit, low income, etc

so I asked Jake a few questions and he told me some info that I didn't know

so I posted it- and some girl posts that I am only trying to get business for my DH and that all brokers are shady etc

to be honest- I am insulted- almost enough not to want to share info anymore

I have given out Jake's info 3 times- and 2 of those people came to me and 1 asked for a recomendation

sorry- I had to vent-

cindyandkevin Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:16 AM

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Don't let them get to you, Beth!! You know you're doing the right thing by offering helpful advice. We appreciate your insight!!

Mrs. Powell Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:18 AM

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Just let it go and continue to be helpful. I have read your posts and find them to be helpful.

Tina120206 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:19 AM

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Posted by Mrs. Powell

Just let it go and continue to be helpful. I have read your posts and find them to be helpful.

I agree. I enjoy reading your insight and appreciate the help. I have never ever thought that you were trying to drum up business for Jake. Never crossed my mind.

mka06 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:23 AM

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Don't let it get to you beth! It was clear from your post that you were trying to help out. Don't let one person's comment bring you down! I think the large majority of people appreciate the info. You certainly never sounded like you were trying to market Jakes business.... We're all big people and can take info and then make our own decisions !

Beth1210 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:24 AM

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thanks everyone

it never crossed my mind that anyone would think that

my only intention was to be helpful about a subject that I have an inside track to get info- for free in my house 24/7

I never intended to use this as a tool to get Jake business-

BHW Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:24 AM

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I read the posts yesterday. You were not trying to get business for your husband. You were just explaining what he told you. Don't worry about it.

SomethingBlu Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:25 AM

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I'm sure Jake gets enough business. That person wrote for 'all' and really assumed incorrectly. Don't let it get to you. Thanks so much for your help!

Blu-ize Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:29 AM

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Beth-don't let that get you down. It was informational and that was just one person's opinion.

SIBride06 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:34 AM

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Beth..

Forget those girls. I know you are only trying to be helpful. If they dont want to use your helpful info.. then they should just keep their nasty comments to themselves. I remember that you posted something like this a while back. I can understand why you wouldn't want to post any more info.

Whatever Some of the girls on this site can be shady. I appreciate any info you have. Afterall, your husband is in the business, so who better to get information like that from?

Meaghan729 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:35 AM

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I read the posts too - I dont think you were trying to get business - you even said in most of them to go to a bank first!!!

Some girls just love the drama, I wouldnt worry about it

kissy27 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:43 AM

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Definately don't let them get to you...It is weird how people automatically think you are trying to solict something when you offer advice or experiences with things...

gina674 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:54 AM

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Don't let these people bother you.... They came to the board For Information... If they don't like what they are reading, they should go inquire on their own. You were just helping, which I for one appreciated.... Please thank your husband for giving you the helpful info!!!!!

MrsFelix Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:56 AM

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Beth I read your post and it's 'obvious' You were just trying to be helpful. Don't let one person get you down. You have been a great source of info and we all appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness. Ignore those that just don't how to express themselves.

nov06 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 11:58 AM

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Efff um. I know it must feel insulting but obviously you've been on the boards a long time and this girl obviously doesn't know you very well. Don't take it to heart.

TimDogsGal Posted: Feb 02, 2006 12:10 PM

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don't let them get to you....You were just trying to be helpful!!

EMES2006 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 12:38 PM

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Grrr....the only thing that was 'obvious'' was that a certain poster isn't familiar with how helpful you have always been in the past and how you dont need to drum up business for your hubby. I, along with a lot of others, appreciate your input Beth!

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Feb 02, 2006 01:51 PM

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Posted by SIBride06

Beth..

Forget those girls. I know you are only trying to be helpful. If they dont want to use your helpful info.. then they should just keep their nasty comments to themselves. I remember that you posted something like this a while back. I can understand why you wouldn't want to post any more info.

Whatever Some of the girls on this site can be shady. I appreciate any info you have. Afterall, your husband is in the business, so who better to get information like that from?

Perfectly said! We love you and your advice. Please keep it coming!!