NWR-dilemma/vent

KristyANDMatt224 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 09:32 AM

NWR-dilemma/vent

so FH plays softball in a tournament in disney every year, either sept OR dec . I always go, just to play in the park (i have yet to watch a game there LOL). He went in sept and I wanted to go, but i started a new position at work and didn't want to take off, plus I had a wedding. FH actually put together a diff team just so he can take me in December. But after xmas shopping, house & wedding bills, etc, he is bugging about $$. He said he didn't even want to do disney now, but he can't screw the team. I stepped up and said I dont need to go. Then yesterday, I basically threw a tantrum bc i want to go-(i know, I'm a brat). He plays in vegas every year in May and i HATE that trip. But I said to him if he can afford florida and vegas for himself, then he can take me to disney, and if I'm not on a plane on thursday, then vegas in May would be an absolute d*ck move, considering he knows I hate that trip and I still don't give him crap about leaving all the time!!! So this morning he said it will be our xmas gift to ourselves and he will just put it on his card and pay it off after tax returns... We are supposed to leave tomorrow night and it's not booked yet. Should I just go to disney and worry about paying it off later?? or actually grow up and skip the trip for one year?! :::sighhh:::

JenniBella Posted: Dec 14, 2011 10:55 AM

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I would see how much the tickets are. Sometimes if there cheap enough it doesnt hurt that bad. But if the tickets are alot of money then dont go. As much as you want to go it can be nice to just relax for a couple of days and not stress. but if its gonna cause stress because of the money later on its not worth it.

You need to make a decision on what to do. FInd out if he booked the tickets and find out how much its gonna cost him to book it.
I love disney and any opportunity i would run too.
Its not about growin up.. your grown up you just wnat to go and theres nothing wrong with that.
A break is always needed..
I would go and pay it off later and if you dont go to Vegas its only himself he has to worry about and tickets to Vegas are double think of it that way !!

coley27 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 04:23 PM

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If its not too much money, go! If its insanely priced, than skip it because youll regret it once the trip is over. Otherwise I would think a nice trip to getaway from the craziness of everything would be nice.

KristyANDMatt224 Posted: Dec 14, 2011 04:40 PM

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Thanks girls! Matt booked the flight for me! We leave tomorrow. I'm staying in a condo with 11 guys. Ahhhhhh. Checking schedules and building my itinerary to romp around disney solo!!! Anyone wanna come play with me? Lol

Eunified Posted: Dec 14, 2011 05:14 PM

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Posted by KristyANDMatt224

Thanks girls! Matt booked the flight for me! We leave tomorrow. I'm staying in a condo with 11 guys. Ahhhhhh. Checking schedules and building my itinerary to romp around disney solo!!! Anyone wanna come play with me? Lol

Take me in your suitcase pleaseeee?!

Kris10nGerard Posted: Dec 14, 2011 05:14 PM

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Posted by KristyANDMatt224

Thanks girls! Matt booked the flight for me! We leave tomorrow. I'm staying in a condo with 11 guys. Ahhhhhh. Checking schedules and building my itinerary to romp around disney solo!!! Anyone wanna come play with me? Lol

YEA! FH family goes every Aug and I am still trying to convince him to go this year so I know how you felt! Have a great time!!!

2013Bride Posted: Dec 14, 2011 07:23 PM

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I say GO! You'll regret not going!!

We went to Disney last February for my fiance's sister's birthday and then in July he had a conference for work there.... so naturally he wanted me to go with him again.... and I KNEW I'd regret it if I didn't go again haha.... so I did! I love Disney.... I say go!

Irishbride16 Posted: Dec 15, 2011 11:54 AM

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Yea i would GO!!!!

DB2013 Posted: Dec 15, 2011 12:14 PM

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I say go too! you are going to have a great time! I would be concerned about the money too but if its a good deal I would jump at the chance.

FutureMrsSweeney Posted: Dec 15, 2011 10:59 PM

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Congrats on going! Have fun!

bigislandbride82 Posted: Dec 15, 2011 11:26 PM

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Have fun!! Disney must be beautiful at Christmas time!

KristyANDMatt224 Posted: Dec 15, 2011 11:35 PM

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I'm heeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrre! Thx ladies! At least FH is making jokes about my tantrum I threw. Whatever! Animal kingdom and magic kingdom tomorrow...hollywood and epcot on sat. Ttys!

AngieJusty Posted: Dec 16, 2011 04:09 PM

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That's wonderful! Have fun! Stop in the german buffet in Epcott. I'm getting hungry thinking about it. LOL

2013Bride Posted: Dec 16, 2011 04:23 PM

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Posted by KristyANDMatt224

I'm heeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrre! Thx ladies! At least FH is making jokes about my tantrum I threw. Whatever! Animal kingdom and magic kingdom tomorrow...hollywood and epcot on sat. Ttys!

I'm so jealous! I neeeeed to go to Disney around Christmas time!!!

Have so much fun!!!