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NWR: FH is a bum...

FutureWifey Posted:

NWR: FH is a bum...

I started talking to a mortgage guy.. and I realized that between wedding planning, working full time, school for the next year at night... I really don't want to deal with the house process. So, I gave him a great deal!!!

I told him that I would let him talk to the mortgage guy, go to the realtor to find houses we would both like.. and all he has to do if give me the key (since we have similar taste.. I thought this would be great!). He got quiet.. then said no. So I said fine.. give me a few houses to look at that you want and I'll choose. Again... NO!. He is just so rude.

Again... I'll have to do everything. Oh well.. I guess planning for a house, a wedding, working full time, and going to school isn't so bad, right?
pixietina Posted:

Re: NWR: FH is a bum...

That is mean of him. Why doesn't he want to help you out?

FutureMrsGTL Posted:

Re: NWR: FH is a bum...

Did you ask him why he doesn't want to look for a house?

CaughtMyFish Posted:

Re: NWR: FH is a bum...

I didnt want to answer before bc the first thing that came to mind is that I would be really unhappy with my FH for taking no part of such a big process. You cant do it all.

FutureWifey Posted:

Re: NWR: FH is a bum...

Well.. he does want to help... he wants to hand over whatever is needed.. look at houses and when I choose.. pay the mortgage..

It's kind of funny.. because he has NO IDEA what goes into anything I do. So, I get that he doesn't want to take over the process because he'd be lost. I'm not mad at him. I actually laughed when I told my mom because she was like 'did you really expect him to?'

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