NWR.. have you been told that your acting weird....

both my mother & sister said i wasn't myself at my shower on sunday. i am not one for attention AND my wedding is about a month away. I do admit i am more irritable lately. I have alot on my mind. My father is not well. he is not sick, but he is a diabetic & has parkinson disease so i don't know if he can make it through the whole day. So i am trying to plan my wedding to accomodate him so he can get some rest.

i still alot of stuff to do without with much help from anybody, still missing about 30 RSVPs, and alot crap going on at work. there never seems to be enough time in the day. then my sister goes telling people at the shower that i am bossy definetely not true. just because i put my foot down to get her butt moving on things. she got bent out of shape.

I know they are just concerned. but isn't this normal for most brides

no it just seems like you have a lot on your plate right now- completely understandable your mom & sis may be going through tough times as well with your dad that may explain the reason why they are saying that to you- it will get better! stay positive hope dad feels better

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Posted by mariaobride

no it just seems like you have a lot on your plate right now- completely understandable your mom & sis may be going through tough times as well with your dad that may explain the reason why they are saying that to you- it will get better! stay positive hope dad feels better

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Very true. Everyone has a lot going on.

I hope your dad feels better!

my sister and best friend are making me absolutely insane.

I cry all the time over things I should be happy about.

I hate being the center of attention, and the 2 of them keep thrusting me in the spotlight.

I say, by shying away I am acting normal, they say I am weird and UNGRATEFUL!

YES, everyone says I am acting strangely!

You def have a lot on your plate right now, but it is normal. Last night, FH kept asking over and over if I was ok, he said I was very quiet and distant. I assured him that I was just tired---I think between working late almost everyday and planning the wedding and everything else that comes up, it just gets to us after awhile.
Don't worry about it------I hope that you dad feels great on your wedding day!!