NWR - I'm in a Rut...

I don't know what's wrong with me lately..
First, my landlord, who doesn't live where we do, decides to put the house up for sale.. FH and I couldn't deal with the BS anymore so we got a new apartment, which is great bc it's bigger has more closets and allows pets, (4lb chihuahua named Chico Sanchez!!).. it's $300 more a month which we can handle, since we both work 2 jobs.. I am just really nervous about moving..

Then there's my job.. I have been here over 2 years and I am going nowhere.. I just got a serious write up bc some b*tch that I work with didn't like my tone of voice with her and told me off to her bosses who, hate me, mind you and wanted to get me fired.. so MY boss pushes for a write up.. and what do they write me up on?? SEXUAL HARASSMENT.. insane.. bc I created a hostile work environment for her.. and now she calls me almost daily and acts sweet as sugar to me and I have to just bite my tongue even though I want to tell her to go F-Herself.. and I just want to start looking for a new job bc I am just not making enough money to deaql with this bs..

And finally there is the wedding.. I feel like a bad person bc I don't even want to think about planning it.. I still have to get the photographer and the video as well as the limos and the HM.. I just can't be bothered right now.. I am hoping that once I move, I can concentrate a little more on the wedding.. and start making moves with that..

I just needed to vent.. I need a vacation..

aww ai'm so sorry that your going through this, the thing about the apt. is something good... right, yiu won't be hiding your puppy.. more space is always a good thing... and send your resume out... more money is always a good thing. You should not have to work in an enviroment that yuor being treated poorly in

So sorry you're having a rough time. What kind of work do you do??? Maybe one of your LIW sisters can help network you to anew career.

I am so sorry you are going through a lot right now! I think u and your FH should go somewhere for a weekend and clear your head!
As far as work goes.. maybe you can put your resume on monster and see what happens!
and as far as venting.. you can vent all you want to us!!!!!!!!!

I work for a credit union in their Loan Servicing Department. My job entails me taking care of all the vehicle loans and making sure our lien has been placed, file maintaining vehicle loans, personal loans, payoffs, releases, etc.. it's quite tedious and repetitive, and although I love working in banking, I would prefer to stay on the administrative side of things.. so working back office is what I enjoy..

I just can't stand that my boss is constantly tapping into my emails to read them.. like she really needs to know what my mom is doing for the day?? and she's always over my shoulder and it's just so annoying.. I'm not 5..

Im so sorry that your going through all this BS right now

Def start looking for a new job (and it will prob mean more $$) and it will all work out in the end!

You can vent to us anytime - thats what were here for!

Sorry sweetie......that really blows!!!

Maybe post what you do on the BHB and see if any of the brides know someone or work somewhere you can go to .....

I appreciate all your support.. Hopefully next week, I am going to interview with a client of my mom's for an administrative position close to my new apartment. Hopefully, there will be more money to be made and a better working environment.. I'll keep u gals posted.. Thanks Again.. xoxoxo