NWR- I'm so annoyed!!

Ok..so my FH and I are both nurses. We work at different hospitals and both have highly stressful jobs. He has been working a lot of overtime and hasn't had much time off. He has been off maybe 3 days in 2 1/2 weeks. I keep tellin him not to work so much, but he doesn't listen. We live together, but I barely see him. (this is all background)

So..my dad was in the hospital this week bc they thought he had a stroke. Thankfully he is home today and doing better. Well, FH has been working the last few days, and I haven't seen him for more than an hour. He stayed at the hospital with me on Thurs., which was the longest amount of time I've seen him in over a week.

So today, hes working. I thought we'd go to dinner after we got home and he told me he's going drinking with his co-workers. Mind you, he stayed late yesterday to eat with them, and has worked with them all week. He said he'll be home by midnight, which ruins any dinner plans. Am I wrong to be hurt and annoyed?? I mean, I've been so stressed over my dad, I have barely had any time to talk to him, let alone see him, and instead of coming home to spend time with me, he goes drinking with his co-workers who he has seen all week?? Am I crazy??

You are not wrong to be annoyed!! I'm so sorry! Can you try talking to him tonight and let him know that you have felt lonely lately?

Aw tell him your lonley and miss him!!!

You have a right to be upset, did you try telling him how you feel?

First of all, I am so happy that your dad is OK Strokes, as you know, ae so scary!!!!!! But again, just so happy to hear it is A ok

I would honestly be bothered by this as well. I think his first priority would be you and spending time with you, especially with your work schedules the way they are. You know, guys just don't see things the same as us. Have you told him how you feel with him choosing to go out tonight with his co-workers over coming home and spenidng time with you?

Here are some hugs!!!

oh man kath im so sorry. is yr dad ok? if it wasnt a stroke then what was wrong??? i think yr definitely justified in being annoyed...i would be. too. he probably didnt mean to hurt your feelings so tell him how u feel. keep me updated

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Posted by ostrichhh

oh man kath im so sorry. is yr dad ok? if it wasnt a stroke then what was wrong??? i think yr definitely justified in being annoyed...i would be. too. he probably didnt mean to hurt your feelings so tell him how u feel. keep me updated

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He's ok...they're not sure. He still can't feel his arm and if face is still numb. He has to go for a bunch of tests tomorrow. I'm glad he's finally home now. It was so stressful, especially since my mom just fully recovered from her stroke a little over a year ago.

I don't think he meant at all to hurt my feelings...but he knows I'm upset and still went anyway. I don't know, I just think he's so insensitive..and the sad thing we've fought about this before because he goes with all girls...and then drives one home to brooklyn every time, and I think its inappropriate!!

that's so messed up! you are 110% right in being upset. that's very insensitive. talk to him!

To be blunt.......That sh*t wouldn't fly with me, going out with all girls, and then driving another one home . On another note.... I'm happy dad is home, and I pray his tests are ok. Here are a few hugs to hold you over

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Posted by werock0709

To be blunt.......That sh*t wouldn't fly with me, going out with all girls, and then driving another one home . On another note.... I'm happy dad is home, and I pray his tests are ok. Here are a few hugs to hold you over

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Trust me...the last time he came home, I ripped him a new one and he said i was overreacting. I mean I understand a majority of his coworkers are women bc hes a nurse. I know he has no mal intent. But thats not that point. It's inappropriate, for her to ask for a ride, and for him to give her one. I also feel like its inappropriate for him to be out drinking until midnight when im sitting here waiting for him!! His excuse last time was, it was on my way and I felt bad. Ok, since when is brooklyn on the way to queens?? HELLO!! He's such a sucker, and these girls take advantage of him, bc they know he'll drive them home..UUGHHH..if he drives them home tonight...it is not going to be pretty!!!!

Youre not wrong for feeling the way you do. Sorry youre upset.

You have every reason to be annoyed. I would be flipping mad right now. FH just did the same to me but on a much smaller scale. I'm sorry you are hurt. How about some

thanks for the support girls...I'm sitting here eating a 90 calorie granola bar and decompressing!!! What I really want is some cookie dough ice cream...