NWR: Is it nagging. . .

if it is for FH's own good?

I know sometimes I can nag about certain things like paying for the hall or working on the apartment. . . but FH is supposed to go to this doctor and I ask very nicely once a day. . .or twice a day. . .or a few times a day. . when he is going to go.

Well he flipped his lid today and called me a nag! I think that since it is for his own good - it shouldnt count as nagging!!!!

Oh yeah I also bug him every day to get his passport - but that is just pure laziness. ..

hmm guess i AM a little bit of a nag! but i will never admit it to him!

someones gotta keep him in check, right? lol jk

yeah. it is. And I am 1,000,000% guilty of it too.

it is just so frustrating - and he says i treat him like a kid.

i so wish i could just make the appt - strap him into my car and carry him in there!

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Posted by ant n tilde

it is just so frustrating - and he says i treat him like a kid.

i so wish i could just make the appt - strap him into my car and carry him in there!

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say he doesnt get any until he does this guarantee he picks up the phone before you finish that sentence lol.

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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i am SO TEMPTED to call his mom - but i have to figure out to do this myself at some point!

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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i am SO TEMPTED to call his mom - but i have to figure out to do this myself at some point!

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I meant you need to be the mom sometimes, could you just make the appointment and tell him when it is?

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Ok i feel bad bc Fh nags me about these type of things, well about putting things off which i do, ive gotten better but still...And it drives him crazy that i can be unorganized, but whats it his business how organized my bag is, or that i have 20 metrocards in my bag and more than half have money on them LOL funny thing is im not exaggerating about the 20

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Ok i feel bad bc Fh nags me about these type of things, well about putting things off which i do, ive gotten better but still...And it drives him crazy that i can be unorganized, but whats it his business how organized my bag is, or that i have 20 metrocards in my bag and more than half have money on them LOL funny thing is im not exaggerating about the 20

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There is always going to be 1 out of the 2 who are more organized and on top of things. I am just REALLY anal, and I can't relax until things are taken care of and perfect. I guess thats my flaw

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Ok i feel bad bc Fh nags me about these type of things, well about putting things off which i do, ive gotten better but still...And it drives him crazy that i can be unorganized, but whats it his business how organized my bag is, or that i have 20 metrocards in my bag and more than half have money on them LOL funny thing is im not exaggerating about the 20

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um yes....I have more metro cards than money in my bag lol

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Posted by jdienstag

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Ok i feel bad bc Fh nags me about these type of things, well about putting things off which i do, ive gotten better but still...And it drives him crazy that i can be unorganized, but whats it his business how organized my bag is, or that i have 20 metrocards in my bag and more than half have money on them LOL funny thing is im not exaggerating about the 20

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There is always going to be 1 out of the 2 who are more organized and on top of things. I am just REALLY anal, and I can't relax until things are taken care of and perfect. I guess thats my flaw

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yeah very true...Fh is OCD and i mean he really is, WOO HOO fun for me. His closet is insane, all the hangers have to face one way, certain shirts need 2 hangers so theres no crease on top...Then theyre all separated by category, such as track jackets, jerseys, blazers. So to mess with him i like to turn a hanger the other way, it drives him nuts, or if i dare go crazy ill put a track jacket with the jerseys

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Posted by Mizzdimple

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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Ok i feel bad bc Fh nags me about these type of things, well about putting things off which i do, ive gotten better but still...And it drives him crazy that i can be unorganized, but whats it his business how organized my bag is, or that i have 20 metrocards in my bag and more than half have money on them LOL funny thing is im not exaggerating about the 20

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um yes....I have more metro cards than money in my bag lol

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OMG SOMEBODY ELSE!!!!!! YAY im not the only one hahahaha

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Posted by jdienstag

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by jdienstag

I deal with the same thing. I think our fh's seem very similar from what I have heard you say. I wanted fh to go to the dermatologist for a body scan b/c we spend the entire summer at the beach and he kept putting it off, so finally I just made him an appointment without him knowing and told him when and where to go. Sometimes you have to kick it into MOM mode

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i am SO TEMPTED to call his mom - but i have to figure out to do this myself at some point!

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I meant you need to be the mom sometimes, could you just make the appointment and tell him when it is?

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oh no i understood what you were saying!

but i think if i did that he would get REALLY mad LOL

yes it is and im also TOTALLY guilty!! but sometimes the men just need to be NAGGED!!!

hows FH doing???

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Posted by ant n tilde

if it is for FH's own good?

I know sometimes I can nag about certain things like paying for the hall or working on the apartment. . . but FH is supposed to go to this doctor and I ask very nicely once a day. . .or twice a day. . .or a few times a day. . when he is going to go.

Well he flipped his lid today and called me a nag! I think that since it is for his own good - it shouldnt count as nagging!!!!

Oh yeah I also bug him every day to get his passport - but that is just pure laziness. ..

hmm guess i AM a little bit of a nag! but i will never admit it to him!

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This is hilarious........because this is me too! LOL I do the same thing. I am always nagging......if i was FH i would have dumped my a$$ by now LOL J/K