So here's the deal. A bunch of girls from my high school are planning a reunion, g2g thing at a bar in a few weekends. So i'm planning on bringing fh cuz we don't see each other that much during the week and the weekend is the only time we get to spend together. So I wanna go out that night and party with him too! My friend who is going agrees with me and wants to bring her boyfriend. The others are being pissy about it cuz in their words 'it's like bringing a 2001 or 2003 graduate to our reunion.' And they have boyfriends and fiances so it's like what is the problem. I think it's cuz their guys don't wanna go and they are taking it out on us. I think it's completely absurd for them to act like it's not appropriate to bring my fh and I gave them my two cents on it. Now there's an argument brewing and i'm like ***. What do you girls think about the situation? They are making me not even wanna go now. Ugh, high school drama allllllll over again!
soontoobemrsk
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Sorry to say, but I think I agree with them. If its a reunion with just the girls (which it seems like it is), it seems to me like you're going against the grain. It's not like its a 10 year reunion or something where youre all going to be married and possibly with kids. I also kind of makes it seem as though theyre not good enough for you to go just for the sake of seeing them. JMHO but do whatever you want.
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Posted by soontoobemrsk
Sorry to say, but I think I agree with them. If its a reunion with just the girls (which it seems like it is), it seems to me like you're going against the grain. It's not like its a 10 year reunion or something where youre all going to be married and possibly with kids. I also kind of makes it seem as though theyre not good enough for you to go just for the sake of seeing them. JMHO but do whatever you want.
its not just girls. other girls are bringing their boyfriends and fiances. and our guys are friends with each other so they wanna hang out too and have a good time. its mostly this one other girl cuz her boyfriend isnt coming and i think she's pissed. and now shes got a few single people agreeing with her and they are acting like its an issue.
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I honestly don't see them problem with it because there were plenty of times when FH would bring me to hang out with a bunch of guys and some of their girlfriends. If you guys really only see eachother on the weekend then I don't see a problem with it at all. I think it would be more fun!!!
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And we are going out to a bar to drink. It's not like some special girl event where its exclusive to only graduates from our year. It's a completely informal thing and this one girl from Atlanta is causing all this trouble cuz her boyfriend won't come home with her to NY for the time she's gonna be here. Who knows, I think it's just petty b.s.
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If thats the case just bring your FH with you..whats the girl gonna do- ask him to leave a public bar??
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If thats the case just bring your FH with you..whats the girl gonna do- ask him to leave a public bar??
agree. If FH just so happens to be there oh well!!
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Posted by soontoobemrsk
Sorry to say, but I think I agree with them. If its a reunion with just the girls (which it seems like it is), it seems to me like you're going against the grain. It's not like its a 10 year reunion or something where youre all going to be married and possibly with kids. I also kind of makes it seem as though theyre not good enough for you to go just for the sake of seeing them. JMHO but do whatever you want.
its not just girls. other girls are bringing their boyfriends and fiances. and our guys are friends with each other so they wanna hang out too and have a good time. its mostly this one other girl cuz her boyfriend isnt coming and i think she's pissed. and now shes got a few single people agreeing with her and they are acting like its an issue.
O, I didnt realize other guys were going. If its just one girl who's jealous, then bring him.
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let me guess.... shes single? or in a bad relationship?..... those are the ones to always declare 'girls night' any high school reunion ive ever heard of invites people with a guest.. i know this is informal and you guys arranged it but whatever... thats the point of reunions! its just obvious that you all arent in the same place anymore and people need to realize that you guys come as a pair! i wouldnt go it FH was not allowed to go.
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let me guess.... shes single? or in a bad relationship?..... those are the ones to always declare 'girls night' any high school reunion ive ever heard of invites people with a guest.. i know this is informal and you guys arranged it but whatever... thats the point of reunions! its just obvious that you all arent in the same place anymore and people need to realize that you guys come as a pair! i wouldnt go it FH was not allowed to go.
What Danielle said. It's an informal reunion at a bar.. I'd bring FH and I wouldn't even ask if he was allowed. I'd just bring him.
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thanks for all the input girls! a bunch of us talked it out tonight. i don't know what that one girl's deal is but we are bringing whoever we want. my best friend and i are both bringing our guys cuz they wanna go! and that's that! lol...thanks again!
