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NWR - Need Prayers - Another Update 5/23 11PM

October Bliss Posted:

NWR - Need Prayers - Another Update 5/23 11PM

Hi Ladies -

During last night's tournament I found out my 37 year old cousin is on a respirator in the hospital because he can't breathe on his own.

The details, together with some background info is as follows:

My cousin is morbidly obese (I am not exaggerating in the least when I say, think Walter Hudson). He has apparantly been 'sick' for several weeks and yesterday called his mom (my aunt who lives with us) and asked to be taken to the hospital after refusing to go on Friday when my aunt suggested it. My aunt did not give the ambulance proper info when she said he was a 'very heavy man' that needed to be taken to the hospital. Needless to say they were unprepared for what they found, and my cousin had to attempt to get down the stairs to his apartment to the ambulance without a gurney. By the time he got to the bottom of the stairs he was completely out of breath, and by the time they arrived at the hospital he was blue and unable to breathe on his own - hence the respirator. My cousin had to ride in the ambulance on the floor, and the hospital has to special order a bed big enough to hold him. He is in ICU and sedated. I have no idea what kind of treatment they can give him, if any, given his current condition.

Please send prayers that he will get the help he needs to make it through this.

Update
The MDs think he has pneumonia and another infection. He is on antibiotics, so we are playing a little bit of a waiting game. Unfotunately, he truly is unable to breathe on his own as he coughed up the tube today and was blue within 30 seconds. They have increased the sedation in the hopes of preventing this from happening again. If it does, they will have to put him on a ventilator instead.
MayBride06 Posted:

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Darlene, My heart goes out to you and you family. My wishes for a speedy recovery.
Happybride2005 Posted:

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JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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kmkelly Posted:

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ewickens Posted:

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Oh, Darlene!!!!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and him during this difficult time!!!
esb980 Posted:

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IslandPrincess Posted:

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What hospital is your cousin in?
October Bliss Posted:

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Posted by IslandPrincess

What hospital is your cousin in?



Huntington. To make matters worse we called his regular MD and the emergency service said the MD no longer goes to the hospital - his MD will be whoever admitted him yesterday!
JXNOscar Posted:

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My prayers are with you and your family
IslandPrincess Posted:

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Huntington is a good hospital for that. I work at Good Sam both in ICU and in Baxter with respiratory patients, which is why I asked.... I hope everything goes well with him
October Bliss Posted:

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Posted by IslandPrincess

Huntington is a good hospital for that. I work at Good Sam both in ICU and in Baxter with respiratory patients, which is why I asked.... I hope everything goes well with him



Thanks for the vote of confidence for the hospital. You so often hear horror stories you never know what to expect.
scappy123 Posted:

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beautyq115 Posted:

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Oh Darlene...I am so sorry...I hope he gets better
DUCKS2001 Posted:

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DARLENE I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THE SAD NEWS, HE WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS, KLEEP POSTING IT SHOULD HELP RELEASE STRESS. MANYHUGS AND PRAYERS

~ CHRISTINE
BKtoLI Posted:

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Darlene, having been there when you first got the news, I am so sorry this is happening. What is it with us and cousins ending up in the hospital???

Hopefully he will react positively to the medication and be back to normal soon!!!! And remember if you need anything I am a phone call away!!!
MrsH1156 Posted:

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I'm so sorry, Darlene. I will keep your cousin and your family in my prayers.
October Bliss Posted:

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Another Update:

Things are not looking good ladies. My aunt went to evening visiting hours and the MD said my cousin took a turn for the worse and probably won't make it. She called home hysterical begging me to come to the hospital b/c she couldn't understand what was being said etc.

I got there and it's definitely not good. He is on 100% oxygen (for the nurses he is at 12 PEEPS) but only processing about 85%. One lung is almost completely shut down due to very severe pneumonia, they think. They can't do a cat scan b/c of his weight and the hospital doesn't have a portable machine. A lung specialist was called in and basically said they're doing everything they can, but unfortunately people still die from pneumonia. The hope at this point is that the 'turn for the worse' is the 'normal' downturn before the antibiotics kick in and start working. The next 24 hours are critical.

ICU visiting hours were over 2 hours ago and my aunt still isn't home, so I'm viewing the hospital not kicking her out as a bad sign.
waterspout4 Posted:

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I am praying right now for him.
October Bliss Posted:

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Update 5/22 4:00 PM

Hi Ladies,

I just got home from the hospital. The MDs found a huge clot in my cousin's heart and one lung. They had wanted to transfer him to another hospital but have determined he probably wouldn't survive the trip. They've given him some new medication to try and dissolve the clots but there is no guarantee.

The official word is wait and see if the clot breaking medication works and if the antibiotics kick in to fight the pneumonia.

For the nurses - his O2 stats are down to 72% on 1005 at 10 PEEPS.

Please continue to keep a good thought. Thanks!

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