NWR: Ok serious time:

I have a ? for you gals. Very Personal.

How many times a week do you do the deed with the FH? Mine seems to think if we miss one day it is time to trow out the guns and have a war...lol okay not that dramatic.. but I am just curious to see if I am depriving the hubby?

get ready to feel much better about your situation...

he's LUCKY if he gets it once a week.

i'm sorry but after 9 years i'd rather just cuddle and watch tv.

haha...i'm so mean.

Im totally opposite FI never wants it and i always do but after making a big deal about him not wanting it...its has improved but once or twice a week if im lucky.

well FH is stationed in San Diego (in the Marines) so when he is home which is usually for 2 weeks at a time- he wants it everyday several times a day...


i can understand since we go months without seeing eachother....

but this July 07 he leaves for Japan for a whole year- we wont see eachother until July of 08-- i can only imagine what he will be like he might just want to hide in our room and not even come out for dinner wait- lie FH needs to eat so he will def want it while eating dinner

i dont think you are depriving him

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Posted by rysie

Long distance over here - NC -NY and we see each other one weekend evert 4-6 weeks...... im no mathematician but the odds are not in our favor!!!

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ditto!!! but we live close enough see eachother everyu weekend if we are lucky.. BUT we both life with our parents... and in SMALL not so spacious houses.... SO .... its been about 3 months... and before that umm i dotn remember

we want to, but i feel liek we cant disrespect family if they happen to hear or suspect....

we are trying to get a few weekends away when the weather gets nicer.. but again i presonally love to cuddle sice its the closest we have been in a while.. adn it means so much to me lately

Holy smokes.. i didnt realize there were so many long distance brides on here.....

How do you guys handle that?

um we both live with our parents. during the week i fall asleep at 10. on the weekend his dad sleeps on the couch next to FH's room.

do the depressing math.

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Posted by debbieh

ditto!!! but we live close enough see eachother everyu weekend if we are lucky.. BUT we both life with our parents... and in SMALL not so spacious houses.... SO .... its been about 3 months... and before that umm i dotn remember

we want to, but i feel liek we cant disrespect family if they happen to hear or suspect....

we are trying to get a few weekends away when the weather gets nicer.. but again i presonally love to cuddle sice its the closest we have been in a while.. adn it means so much to me lately

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I hear you on that one.. we use to live with FH's parents up until december. and Pa would walk in all the time.. it was so embarissing. then he would say.. someone is glowing...

lets just say thats not the words i want to hear from FFIL

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Posted by missigreg

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Posted by debbieh

ditto!!! but we live close enough see eachother everyu weekend if we are lucky.. BUT we both life with our parents... and in SMALL not so spacious houses.... SO .... its been about 3 months... and before that umm i dotn remember

we want to, but i feel liek we cant disrespect family if they happen to hear or suspect....

we are trying to get a few weekends away when the weather gets nicer.. but again i presonally love to cuddle sice its the closest we have been in a while.. adn it means so much to me lately

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I hear you on that one.. we use to live with FH's parents up until december. and Pa would walk in all the time.. it was so embarissing. then he would say.. someone is glowing...

lets just say thats not the words i want to hear from FFIL

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AND THAT IS WHAT IM TYRING TO AVOID!!!!

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Posted by missigreg

Holy smokes.. i didnt realize there were so many long distance brides on here.....

How do you guys handle that?

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i have known my FH for 14 yrs already but only started dating 2 yrs ago- so we had a good friendship which helped our long distance relationship alot- but our relationship began as a long distance one- he came back from boot camp we hooked up and a week late he went to Maryland and i saw him once before 2 months passed and he went to San Diego (he has been there for 2 yrs) . Last year he came home alot like every other month for a weekend and he always comes home for xmas and new years eve. but throughout our 2 1/2 yr relationship we have seen each other no longer than 2 weeks at a time with months in between them. but he comes home this june for a whole month ebfore he leaves for JAPAN so excited!!!


you make it work i think...its not hard i say it makes our relationship stronger. and we know each other sooo well cause we talk on the phone alot and talk about EVERYTHING and i mean everything

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Posted by mattysgurl616

Im totally opposite FI never wants it and i always do but after making a big deal about him not wanting it...its has improved but once or twice a week if im lucky.

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I am so in the same boat as you. My fh just doesn't care as much as most guys, and sometimes its me wanting it more, but we are on different schedules and so busy and we live together so if it doesn't happen theres always tomorrow and then tomorrow turns into next week. hahahaha

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by missigreg

Holy smokes.. i didnt realize there were so many long distance brides on here.....

How do you guys handle that?

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i have known my FH for 14 yrs already but only started dating 2 yrs ago- so we had a good friendship which helped our long distance relationship alot- but our relationship began as a long distance one- he came back from boot camp we hooked up and a week late he went to Maryland and i saw him once before 2 months passed and he went to San Diego (he has been there for 2 yrs) . Last year he came home alot like every other month for a weekend and he always comes home for xmas and new years eve. but throughout our 2 1/2 yr relationship we have seen each other no longer than 2 weeks at a time with months in between them. but he comes home this june for a whole month ebfore he leaves for JAPAN so excited!!!


you make it work i think...its not hard i say it makes our relationship stronger. and we know each other sooo well cause we talk on the phone alot and talk about EVERYTHING and i mean everything

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That is awsome. I met my FH right after he got out of the core. He almost was recruited again a few months ago and I was freaking out bc i dont know what i would have done. I give yu alot of credit! I agree it makes you stronger. Over the summer my FH had to leave for three weeks and when he got home it really put into perspective what we have! It was amazing

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Posted by missigreg

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by missigreg

Holy smokes.. i didnt realize there were so many long distance brides on here.....

How do you guys handle that?

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i have known my FH for 14 yrs already but only started dating 2 yrs ago- so we had a good friendship which helped our long distance relationship alot- but our relationship began as a long distance one- he came back from boot camp we hooked up and a week late he went to Maryland and i saw him once before 2 months passed and he went to San Diego (he has been there for 2 yrs) . Last year he came home alot like every other month for a weekend and he always comes home for xmas and new years eve. but throughout our 2 1/2 yr relationship we have seen each other no longer than 2 weeks at a time with months in between them. but he comes home this june for a whole month ebfore he leaves for JAPAN so excited!!!


you make it work i think...its not hard i say it makes our relationship stronger. and we know each other sooo well cause we talk on the phone alot and talk about EVERYTHING and i mean everything

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That is awsome. I met my FH right after he got out of the core. He almost was recruited again a few months ago and I was freaking out bc i dont know what i would have done. I give yu alot of credit! I agree it makes you stronger. Over the summer my FH had to leave for three weeks and when he got home it really put into perspective what we have! It was amazing

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you are so right!! it is amazing when they are gone for a long period of time it definitely lets you realize what you have and I never ever take FH for granted cause we dont get to see each other often!! thanks though glad someone else understands- i always have something said to me as to why i bother or why dont i go out nad live there then!! Why cant people mind their own business

FH has been working nights for a while...so really only on the weekends!
BUT he just got a great job in Denver and he'll be working a regular schedule...SO i'll have to let you know! haha

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Posted by DnellD809

FH has been working nights for a while...so really only on the weekends!
BUT he just got a great job in Denver and he'll be working a regular schedule...SO i'll have to let you know! haha

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Good Luck! I hope it works out for you!

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Posted by cbcf

Why cant people mind their own business

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All people can ever do is talk talk talk..

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Posted by failurebydsign

once a week maybe..were on different schedules so its hard..usually sunday mornings..instead of going to church..lol

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haha i like that